Thought they were ridiculous.

Went to Japan.

Sold.

Any recommendations?

I'd rather have the full unit than add-on seat types.

Do you mean bidet? Or tankless?

Toto for both. Neorest is their tankless design with built in bidet. I'm not spending $5k on a toilet but my friends just put one in their new build and it's about as fancy as you can get in toilet tech with auto opening lid, bowl pre-mist, heated bidet, etc.

We too went on a trip to Japan and came back changed people lol

Got the Toto K300 Washlet bidet attachment last summer installed when we did a bath remodel and its the best choice we've ever made. You just need a power outlet nearby.

I dumped all the models that Lowe's, HD, Costco had into chatgpt and landed on thatone. Was about $450 when we got it and worth every damn penny.

Went to Baths of America to see what they had for regular bidet toilets but didnt want to spend multiple thousands of dollars.

Guess which clients search these out the most?
Retiring Engineers
Retiring Professors

This new fad is replacing even wall-mount urinals
although the tall floor mounts are cleaner.