Aggieland Black Thumb here
Male Chinese Pistachie is #1 has been a faster grow than Cedar Elm as #2 that lasts a bit longer
BOTH
self propogate in non-mowed spots (female CP)
are deciduous
over 30ft ht
shade width not as grand as a Live Oak as #3, which is planted same year over 25ft from anything and would be the survivor should the other two die early
All above tolerate
alkaline sodium rich tap water in slow deep soaked
drought
clay soils
pests
#4
My tall variety crepe myrtles can also boast the same accolates, which are 25ft from house.
Now over 25yrs old, no grass grows in all that shade, so some will plant drawf mondo grass as a lawn
Pro advice could comment on your email photos:
https://kamu.tamu.edu/radio/radio-programs/garden-success/ Ten words or less ... a goal unattainable