Pearl of Wisdom #2...
"Plan to succeed or plan to fail."
It seemed like remodeling was so easy not too long ago. I am an avid fan of "This Old House", "Hometime", "The Fixer Upper", and "Love it or List it" - just to name a few. They make the remodeling process seem so simple and fluid. The reality is that it takes an enormous amount of time to really understand what you have (assessment) and what is possible (ideas). After some dreaming, it is time to start figuring out costs. Without a plan, not many reputable Builders can give you a ballpark price that is within 25-50% of the target. They need a plan and a vision. This is where I think some new applications are helping home owners get serious about planning. They should start this process a year ahead of engaging a professional designer. This way they have already eliminated a bunch of options, have discussed between them what are the priorities.
I think many couples who have a difficulty working things out fall into the category of folks who are just starting the remodeling journey. Once they start to "see" the ideas taking shape and the costs - that's when the proverbial "crap" hits the fan. So start early!
Some other ideas when you start:
1. Use Pinterest to start gathering ideas. Organize by rooms. Try indicate what you like or don't like about an image you are capturing.
2. Establish a budget. At first you may not know what things cost, so start there and Google. Go to Home Tours and ask about costs. Go to Home and Garden Shows and ask about costs. After awhile, you will get some idea. Then look at your neighborhood and see if that works.
3. Don't be afraid to hire a professional. I tell people that 1 hour of my time may cost you $250, but it will save you thousands! The same with a reputable Builder. They are worth every dollar and I always tell my clients to pay them upfront for an estimate. Why? Because that level of experience will save a lot of headache down the road. It doesn't eliminate problems or change orders, but it will make huge dent.
4. Remodeling is not an exact science like new construction. Wood rot, termites, water leaks, asbestos, electrical issues, all rear their ugly head at some point in the process. I am now at the point where I ask my clients to pay for a camera inspection of the plumbing. Why pay $$ only to find out your pipes can't handle another bathroom. Same with foundation inspections.
5. Take a picture of your faces before starting, during the storm, and afterwards. It helps to have some perspective!
6. Don't just hire the cheapest guy. When I help clients select a Builder, I ask the GCs how they handle change orders, delays, and poor workmanship. The good ones have an idea about failures and how to address them. In the end you are really placing a lot of trust in these professionals, better have a solid relationship with them.
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