Just disregard everything that has been posted on this thread and go find a golf instructor and listen to whatever he or she tells you to do.
Aggie95 said:
also consider learning the game "backwards". Spend A LOT of time on and around the putting green. Get your putting stroke down and learn how to chip the ball. Get comfortable scoring from 50 yards and in. If you can get the feel for chipping the ball...lengthening the swing MAY come easier. Plus, even a "worm burner" from the tee or fairway will travel a 100 yards or so, eventually getting you to that 50 yard area mentioned above.