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Financial Guidance for 30yo Couple

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FrioAg 00
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Corps_Ag12 said:

Have you considered what you'll do once you retire at 50? I couldn't imagine retiring that early, hell its only 17 years away!

I have family members who have retired at 55, 65, etc. and no matter the age they seem to have partially degraded into a homebody that cannot fathom doing more than one activity a day. It's borderline annoying.




My early retirement plan includes:

1) train to finally finish that full IM (worked up to the half then just haven't had the training time)

2) do some longer term traveling, like 6 months living in some different countries

3) home school my grandkids for elementary if my kids will let me

4) take my farm up a significant notch (but still a hobby)

5) get back into teaching youth at church

6) make it to a LOT of A&M sports games, and not just the big sports.

7) drive my lovely bride crazy
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We may be slightly different than some as my wife still works. But we have as much on insurance on her as myself. I damn well know I'm going to need help with the kid if something happens to her. Like full time nanny help.
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ag0207 said:

No telling how much my wife's Target shopping trips have pushed my retirement back.
Target?!

You are getting off lucky you piker

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I found this a good read when I was young.

https://www.amazon.com/Die-Broke-Radical-Four-Part-Financial/dp/0887309429

Gives you some outside the box ways to think about stuff.

Best thing you can do is educate yourself about finances by reading a lot. Or, be fortunate to make a lot of money. Regardless, the best thing you can do is live within your means, without being so frugal that life is a bore and unhappy.
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If you called in to Dave Ramsey with this scenario I think he'd say you are fine and enjoy your life.
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Looks solid OP.

But yeah...to all people who say "what will you do when you retire?" Really shows more about the person asking the question...and are probably sad people who have no idea how to live life.

I 100% could keep myself fully engaged while retired.
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Tex117 said:

Looks solid OP.

But yeah...to all people who say "what will you do when you retire?" Really shows more about the person asking the question...and are probably sad people who have no idea how to live life.

I 100% could keep myself fully engaged while retired.
I know what I would do when I retire....But I also know if I do everything I want I'll need a hell of a lot more than $2.5mm, especially if I retire at 50.
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htxag09 said:

Tex117 said:

Looks solid OP.

But yeah...to all people who say "what will you do when you retire?" Really shows more about the person asking the question...and are probably sad people who have no idea how to live life.

I 100% could keep myself fully engaged while retired.
I know what I would do when I retire....But I also know if I do everything I want I'll need a hell of a lot more than $2.5mm, especially if I retire at 50.
Well, fair enough!

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Something I haven't seen or mentioned here... think about your career progression and potential earning potential... and hers.

in 10 years you could be making 2x or 3x that if you're progressing in your career.. then none of this matters unless you have huge lifestyle creep. Do either of you have careers like this? If my wife was capped out in her late 20s... I'd consider her staying home but she's working towards her PhD while working and still growing her salary.

I will say this though... if you think the amount you're saving is going to increase while you have FREE daycare and 1 child (and want another kid, put them in daycare, or have your wife stay home, and then buy another house on land)... I think you need to be realistic.

Unless you're incredibly frugal and stick to the plan, you can make this work but it rarely goes that way...

You'll still want to travel, kids are EXPENSIVE... a cool 4 day weekend trip for your wife was great when you could buy them with points... a 5 day trip to Disney for a family of 4 will you run $10k. When SAHM sees other SAHM do that, you're in trouble.

New house = new expenses... want it on land? gotta buy a $10k mower or small tractor.

Life gets expensive.

We make over $350k and I still feel poor as hell some days.
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Health insurance costs from 50 to Medicare age are going to chew up that $2.5. I'm currently 48, targeting 55 retirement, and my target is close to 2X higher
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Good stuff, OP.

I have stayed home the last 7 years with our three kids and am about to start back working in the fall with everyone in school full time. It was hard to quit as I loved my job, but I wouldn't change it for the world to get to be with my little ones. No stress about them getting sick and missing work or all that. If you can financially swing it, it has been a blessing. Good luck!
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I'm just impressed the OP is the first person on Texags to admit he doesn't have $5MM at 30
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OP, what's your current net worth? You seem to be doing everything "right" financially, but this is the biggest question we need answered to see if you're on track.

If your net worth at age 30 is $50k or lower, then my advice would be a lot different than if your net worth was $250k+.
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FrioAg 00 said:

I haven't spent enough time reverse engineering the model here, but the first thing that stands out to me is:

Current income is $200k, so call that $130k after taxes.

You want to replace that income with spin-off of a retirement balance of $2.5.

Let's say long term nominal rate of return is 6.5%, and we'll use a 50 year inflation number of 2% reinvestment rate just to keep up with spending power. So you could draw 4.5% per year out, and after taxes (assume long term cap gains at 25%) you'd get 3.375% to replace your income.

$2.5 x 3.375% is $85k

I think you'd be underfunded by 30%. It's true you are saving money today (expenses coming in less than cash income) but it's also true that people's expectations for future costs of living are chronically underestimated.
I disagree on some math.

Income: $200k - 43k (tax deferred assumption) * effective rate = ~$165 after taxes. To early retire you need to hammer 401(k)/b/back door and you tax arbitrage with future you. I'm not trying to nitpick, but taxes are the topic I want to focus on below.

Income doesn't matter for early retirement. You need to match expected costs to withdrawals. In retirement, you won't be contributing to a 401k anymore. Ideally, you won't have a mortgage anymore, or childcare expenses, or car notes, etc. OP needs to bottom-up estimate expenses expected at 50 and target the 25x multiple against that.

Long term cap gains are 15% for married jointers in the $90 - $500k bracket - not 25%. BUT, the brackets matter because they're AGI. In theory, married jointer could realize gains up to $116k ($89k + standard deduction of $27k) at the 0% LTCG rate.

AGI is also critical for healthcare in early retirement. The subsidy cliffs are driven by MAGI.

Net, net: controlling AGI through Roth and Taxable withdrawals (cost basis excluded from AGI) is where you need to plan for early retirement for efficient taxes and securing affordable healthcare.

Also, it's entirely feasible to access 401(k)s early through Roth ladders. Again, you need to model out planned expenses then find the right balance of conversions, Taxable and existing Roth to minimize taxes and gun for ACA subsidies. E.g., we plan for $100k FIRE budget and expect ~$30k in MAGI. Our goals is $2.5m and target 40. SORR and healthcare will be the risks to those goals. You might think I'm underfunded, but our fixed expenses will be minimal so we'll be able to dial down withdrawls if needed. The extra 2,3,4 years or whatever to save that extra 30% isn't worth the time trade off to me.

I hope to only have 5 more years of work. I'm a volunteer ski patroller and will flip to paid (day or so a week) at 40 (fingers crossed). So not really RE, more like Barista-FI or something. Point being, I 100% know how I'll be spending my non-big boy job life.
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Mid 30s here as well. Not to steal OPs thunder but I have a question.

Is the consensus it is best to do

401k up to match
Max out Roth IRA

over maxing out 401K?

If I'm expected to make way more this and next year than I did in 2022 and 2025 and beyond? (Long story with some bonuses)

I was planning on maxing out 401K in 23/24 because of the increased income and going to back to maxing Roth (after company match) after.

Am I doing that right?
FrioAg 00
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Agreed with the more refined assumptions you have laid out, and taxes always become THE most important long term variable.

I will retire early, but not near as early as my model might suggest possible. I won't be comfortable unless I'm at least 200% funded by the conservative math.

Long term I think the US tax rates are going to go way up with the staggering debt we are racking up - and the socialists will demonize me for building wealth. I would not be surprised if we see 40% capital gains tax in our lifetime, and 50% estate tax led for anything above very low thresholds.

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I'm not a big fan of "how much is enough at what age?" rules of thumb. For me to retire at 55, I needed to probe out to myself that the math works with a very thorough model. I built a very detailed "retirement living" budget, which I then apply inflation assumptions. Separately I built a model for my investments, their growth, and estimated tax impact. Then I walk the model forward annually: investment + return - taxes - spend, to get a rolling annual net worth until we are 100 years old. The wild card is inflation - pretty amazing how assumptions that are not even drastically different can significantly impact the overall math, much less what we saw the past 2 years.
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6 Month Update

We moved forward with purchasing a few acres outside of town with intentions to build.

We decided to wait on baby 2 until we completed construction of our new home.

Turns out, that ship had already sailed. We learned we were expecting baby #2 on Mother's Day. Three days later, my wife received notice she was getting laid off. She did receive a decent severance package.

As of now, we're about to put our house on the market and rent while we complete construction. With the equity we have in our current home, I expect the new mortgage including the property and construction costs to be similar to our current mortgage, so that should be about a net zero on monthly expenses. We've taken my wife's layoff as an opportunity for her to stay at home. Once we get through these transitions, we will regroup and resume working towards the goals outlined in my original post, although one income will obviously slow things down until the kids get into school and my wife (hopefully) resumes her career.

Life happened. Running a tight ship financially has allowed us to turn this into an opportunity rather than an emergency.

Ghost of Bisbee
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Sounds like a great outlook and approach to life's challenge. Keep staying positive and well done, OP!
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DannyDuberstein said:

I'm not a big fan of "how much is enough at what age?" rules of thumb. For me to retire at 55, I needed to probe out to myself that the math works with a very thorough model. I built a very detailed "retirement living" budget, which I then apply inflation assumptions. Separately I built a model for my investments, their growth, and estimated tax impact. Then I walk the model forward annually: investment + return - taxes - spend, to get a rolling annual net worth until we are 100 years old. The wild card is inflation - pretty amazing how assumptions that are not even drastically different can significantly impact the overall math, much less what we saw the past 2 years.


Any chance you'd be open to anonymizing the #s and personal info in your model and sharing it?
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