strip clubs arent that common, some are "underground" though. I've only been to one, since most trips have just been the wife and I and her family.

As far as clubs go, OSJ is a good place to start. Found this site on some clubs.
http://www.pubclub.com/sanjuan/nightlife.htm

Traffic can be really bad on the weekend late at night in SJC, so keep that in mind. Clubs stay open late, until 4-6am. Party doesnt start until after midnight usually.

Hitting the hotels on Isla Verde is good too. The El San Juan has clubs, casino, awesome lobby bar, salsa dancing, etc, all under one roof.

One thing is for sure, where lots of sunscreen before the wedding. You dont want to look like a lobster in all the wedding photos. Save your time in the sun for after the wedding!

Thanks Putu, we are staying at El Convento so glad to hear you like. Those sound like great restaurants. Anything we need to see while we are down in OSJ? I know there is the fort, but other than that is it mainly shops, restaurants, bars?
We are staying out at the Wyndham Rio Mar the rest of the week. Not sure if we will/should just hang at the beach everyday or go see stuff. Any "must sees/dos" in the San Juan area? Or just relax and enjoy the beach?

so how was the trip?