don't think i ever got in on this thread, i just wanted to say that I offer my condolences to y'all in this terrible time, it doesn't mean much, i don't know that any words that I could ever write would allay or mitigate the grief that y'all are feeling right now, no one should ever have to suffer the grief that y'all are experiencing, no one deserves that kind of pain. Y'all are all in our prayers.