There was a great thread on the M&W forum ElectricAg1 asked these questions:
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For someone to be unhappy with the job Fran has done, to think think he has done a poor job overall these last 3 years, without hating the man?
Is it also possible to think Fran has done a poor job without hating Texas A&M?
It is really hard to imagine that some of you all are adults or young adults.
I look forward to the pearls of wisdom that will be posted below.
Here is my answer to these questions:
To question 1, Yes< BUT if the state of the Football Program is a significant factor in your emotional well being
it's hard to be objective. PLUS the added emotional intensity of the state of success of our sibling rivals (the sips and tards), just multiplies the difficulty of remaining cool and objective and PATIENT!
Absolutely on the second question.
BUT, I don't think it is possible to SEPERATE the Head Coach and staff from the Texas A&M football team. I don't think you can say
"I hate Fran! (which is kind of extreme, comes from an inbalance from question 1.)
but I support the A&M team." That's kind of like saying
'Well, I love my body, my heart and my vital organs, but I hate the head! So I'll just shoot the head and some how think that it has no effect on the body!' That's kind of dumb. Get the comparrison?
I do have a problem with a large portion of the critism of Fran, but NOT ALL. If it is done in an objective and reasonable way, I have no problems with someone saying
"I think we should of used J Lane a lot more during the ISU game! or
'I think we should of gone for 2 here'. No problem there but let's remember that hind site makes geniuses out of us all (well most people at least. HEHEHEHE)
I have no problem with that, I do however have a problem with
"What a stupid blankity blank Fran is, he can't coach, he can't recruit, he has destroyed the program and blah blah blah!" Some have even compared him to some pretty evil historical figures and spread some really false info about him. (this again comes out of an over prioritization of values from question 1 and a willingness to believe lies to justify your hatred!)
I have asked the handful that do this over and over again if they can find at least one thing that Fran has done right, and mention it! Up to now, THEY CAN'T or won't! That irritates me and I just find it hard to not confront. I think they have a root of bitterness and that defiles! If Fran ever does succeed they are going to have a hard time enjoying the fruits of the success. (Kind of like some Cowboy fans who could never handle Jimmy Johnson's success!) These folk are getting ripped off. IMHO
You can't carry on any cohesive conversation with those type. When ever you challenge their opinion and ask them to defend it, They call it a personal attack or name call you or call you Mike McKenzie < Which I have been called. HEHEHEHE)
The other problem I have with criitizing Fran is that it really bares no positive fruit at all. NONE, ZIP, NADA. No one has yet answered my challenge as to how all this dung slinging does any postive thing for the program. They just repond that they have a right to share their opinions of feelings. No one doubts that right. That is not the question, the question is how does it help the program? No answer yet.
Even if we are as bad as these think, and I disagree. It's like having an ugly daughter. The fact of the matter is that to the eye of many she may be ugly. But as a father she's your daughter! Even if you know she's not the prom queen, I don't think you would just get up in the morning every day and say,
"Geez girly your ugly!" (Furthermore,It's really a stupid father to be comparing your daughter to every every Hollywood sex symbol. Thus I don't care about the sips, Their not my daugther, not even my neice!) You'd be a pretty sick dad to do that. It also surely isn't going to help fix the problem is it? Words are powerful, thoughts are powerful, they have an effect, more than we know or are willing to admit. We'll be judged by them as well. If you don't think outsiders don't come on here and read these threads and make judgements your just plain dense and want to remain so! Sorry that's just the truth.
Texas A&M football is the only 'daughter' I have (metaphorically speaking) When someone is constantly calling her ugly and stupid (especially in public) I get a bit preturbed.
Even in my own family if a brother was calling my daughter ugly I think he better get ready for a beating!
That's what most the guys who have a hard time with me don't understand. They think I am pro Fran to the inth degree. Well, yea I am because, he is the HC (the head) of Texas A&M football. Which happens to be my 'daughter'. YOu can't say to me,
"wow what a great body but gee she needs to wear a sack!" and not have me get a little rankled. (A little side note: as funny as it is for the Saints to be called the ain'ts and wear sacks to games. Tell me how that has helped the success of the Saints as a football team and they are PROS!? As a man thinks so he is!)
Finally, I still see the whole Fran thing as a work in progress. The jury is still out, I disagree with those who have already judged and beheaded him.
It becomes a lot harder to get pretty when those in your family are slapping you and throwing rocks at you every chance you get. It's like they want you to be ugly!
Let the man have a full and fair shot to get the girls mature and prettied up!
Even if Fran doesn't get the job done you won't see me throwing stones at him. I don't believe he is trying to sabbatoge the program. Once again that is a tree without fruit.
"only one thing is important!"