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Social media study - scary stuff (especially y'all with daughters)

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TarponChaser
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I don't have a sub to the "New York Times" but do get an email newsletter and these high points from a study on social media and the impact on kids, especially girls is really scary. We have boys but still need to be vigilant. Some parents are real pieces of work and there's a lot of scumbags out there.

Here's the high points from the newsletter. I'll put the link below if somebody wants to read the whole thing.

There is still much that researchers don't understand about digital technology, and some smartphone use is clearly necessary and healthy. But the notion that smartphones are beneficial or harmless to mental health on the whole an argument that technology executives sometimes make looks much weaker than it once did.


Two of my colleagues, Jennifer Valentino-DeVries and Michael H. Keller, have published a new investigation into an extreme example of the problems that social media can cause for children. Their article examines Instagram accounts that parents operate for their young daughters, often in the hope of turning the girls into influencers or models. Many of these accounts have attracted a following from men who acknowledge on other platforms that they are sexually attracted to children.

As Jennifer and Michael write:
Thousands of accounts examined by The Times offer disturbing insights into how social media is reshaping childhood, especially for girls, with direct parental encouragement and involvement. Some parents are the driving force behind the sale of photos, exclusive chat sessions and even the girls' worn leotards and cheer outfits to mostly unknown followers. The most devoted customers spend thousands of dollars nurturing the underage relationships. …

Interacting with the men opens the door to abuse. Some flatter, bully and blackmail girls and their parents to get racier and racier images. The Times monitored separate exchanges on Telegram, the messaging app, where men openly fantasize about sexually abusing the children they follow on Instagram and extol the platform for making the images so readily available.

Obviously, many parents post photos of their young children in harmless ways so that family and friends can stay updated. But Jennifer and Michael's article avoided focusing on these instances by examining only accounts that had at least 500 followers and posted multiple images of children in form-fitting or revealing attire.

Takeaways
Among the article's key points:
  • Some children charge monthly subscriptions to their images and earn six-figure incomes.
  • "With the wisdom and knowledge I have now, if I could go back, I definitely wouldn't do it," one parent said. "I've been stupidly, navely, feeding a pack of monsters, and the regret is huge."
  • The Times found men who used children's Instagram pages to satisfy their fantasies and who exchanged information about parents considered receptive to selling "private sets" of images.
  • An internal study at Meta the parent company of Facebook and Instagram, run by Mark Zuckerberg found that 500,000 child Instagram accounts had "inappropriate" interactions every day, court records show.
  • Meta failed to act even after receiving multiple reports from parents of worrisome behavior. Instead, the company sometimes restricted parents who tried to block many followers. Former Meta employees described the company as overwhelmed by the problem despite having known about it for years.
  • A Meta spokesman disputed the suggestion that the company's safety and security efforts were underfunded, saying that 40,000 employees worked on them. He also said that Meta reported more suspected child abuse imagery to the authorities each year than any other company.
  • "The Bible says, 'The wealth of the wicked is laid up for the righteous,'" said the owner of a small clothing company who features young influencers in his online marketing. "So sometimes you got to use the things of this world to get you to where you need to be, as long as it's not harming anybody."

NYT study (occasionally they commit real journalism)
texagbeliever
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CPS takes child away from parents because they refuse gender affirming care.

I think this article just provided a list of parents who should be getting much more attention.
Diggity
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AG
seems like the issue (here) is sicko parents more than anything
TarponChaser
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Diggity said:

seems like the issue (here) is sicko parents more than anything

For sure.

But, I'm also talking about how it opens up all sorts of mental health concerns from bullying to anxiety and depression because kids (especially girls) see heavily edited & filtered pics of InstaThots and think it's real. Or see people doing stuff and don't realize that social media isn't real life, it's a highlight reel. And so on.
Diggity
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Agreed, social media is ****ing terrible for kids.

will keep mine away from it for as long as possible. There's some creepy **** snuck into some YouTube Kids videos as well.
Sea Speed
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Diggity said:

Agreed, social media is ****ing terrible for kids.

will keep mine away from it for as long as possible. There's some creepy **** snuck into some YouTube Kids videos as well.


Social media is a scourge. My kids will not be on it at all like you say. I only have daughters so I am extra hawkish about online bs. The world is sick.
Ryan the Temp
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Quote:

Some parents are the driving force behind the sale of photos, exclusive chat sessions and even the girls' worn leotards and cheer outfits to mostly unknown followers.
These f'ed up parents know exactly what they're doing.
TarponChaser
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Diggity said:

Agreed, social media is ****ing terrible for kids.

will keep mine away from it for as long as possible. There's some creepy **** snuck into some YouTube Kids videos as well.

Our 4th grader doesn't have a phone and we keep an eye on the YouTube stuff for sure because that's about all they watch is streaming YT videos on the tv in the game room.

Our 8th grader has a phone but no social media yet. However, based on instructions from coaches next year when he's a freshman we need to set him up with Twitter and Instagram accounts that we as parents will control for recruiting purposes and communication with college coaches & scouts.
drumboy
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texagbeliever said:

CPS takes child away from parents because they refuse gender affirming care.

What?!
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