How far is it to Hardy Toll Road? - With no traffic, you can get there in 5-7 minutes from the front. However, depending on where you live it can easily take you 5-10 minutes to get to the front. Also, add up to 5 minutes at rush hour in the morning.
Schools zoned to that area okay (they have elementary age and middle school age kids)? - Don't have kids, but I've heard that people there are relatively happy with the K-8. I don't know much about the HS (Oak Ridge)
Grocery/other shopping nearby? - HEB just bought some land to build a new store right in front of Spring Trails. This will be very convenient to Benders Landing and Benders Landing Estates. Most of the closer shoppping/restaurants is on Rayford. There is a nice Kroger on Rayford and a couple decent restaurants. For another 5-10 minutes you can be at many of the good Woodlands restaurants
Any part of the development better than another? - This is mostly personal preference. A lot of people like Benders Landing (vs. Benders Landing Estates) because of the proximity to Rilezy Fuzzel. Also, it is about 80% built out, so there is less construction traffic. Benders Landing Estates probably has some higher end homes. They also have their own neighborhood pool (BL doesn't). One thing to be aware of... BL is having some legal issues with their HOA and some homeowners. Mulitple lawsuits are making their way through the system. It doesn't matter who wins it, the homeowners will likely foot the bill. BLE is still run by LGI (the developer), so they're not involved.
We had soil test run, but did not come across any issues similar to what the other poster mentioned. Also, when the Grand Parkway is done it will be great, but getting there will be painful.
Overall, a pretty good community if you're wanting a larger lot, but you still want to be part of a neighborhood community with 'easy' access to downtown.
I'm happy to answer any other questions you might have....
[This message has been edited by Texas A&M (edited 7/10/2012 3:49p).]