We were at Upbring for a while and were considering St. Martin's when Upbring closed. St. Martin is a good school. We are members of the church.
We send/sent all 3 of ours to St. George's now at Airport and 35 and its an incredible program. I would suggest doing a tour at St. George and speaking to Jerri Thompson, I am not sure how long the waiting list for the 18 month old class but get on it just in case you decide to move.
St. George is extremely professional and the teachers are highly trained. They require a much higher level of education and on going training than most schools. Our oldest needed OT and speech therapy, which he was able to get at St. G and the therapies were reinforced by his teachers and all staff who interacted were aware of his care plan. He starts elementary this year and you wouldn't even notice that he ever needed those therapies. The teachers at St. G will be able to recommend whether or not you should consider an OT eval.
The scope and sequence is custom for St. G and influenced by Erik Erikson psychosocial developmental stages.
Psychosocial-developmentThe outdoor spaces are purpose designed and super fun. The parent population is also very involved
I used Nanny Poppins and they sent great candidates, but given what you have said I'd consider getting more professional and educated help now, so that if there is a psychosocial issue that can start to be treated now
If you have room for Au Pair thats also a great option. We are considering one in addition to our day school because our work schedule can be somewhat inflexible