This thread seems like one worth dropping this thought into:
A couple observations on human nature:
- We seek out others with similar values, to help us validate our preexisting beliefs.
- No one enjoys being wrong, and everyone is the hero of their own story.
- Therefore, we are more bothered by differing opinions from our selected value group than we ever would be by a different opinion held by "outsiders", because it makes us question previously held internal beliefs, and no one is really comfortable with doing that.
Demonstration of the first point is that we are all on an Aggie forum, and more specifically on an outdoors geared subforum for Aggies. This place is "home" for a lot of us, because it's shared with other people we prefer to self identify with.
Point two and three manifest themselves in really interesting ways when it comes to self defense topics that I have seen play out the same way year after year on multiple forums, not just this one and not just on this topic. My personal theory is that because for most of us "self defense" really means defending our wives and children from harm, any deviation from internal (and what we assume is the group) orthodoxy makes us uncomfortable if we perceive ourselves on the potential wrong side of the Self Defense Gnostic Spectrum (tm).
The Self Defense Gnostic Spectrum can be summed up pretty easily:
Everyone who does less than me is an unprepared idiot (the wrong side)What I doEveryone who does more than me is a nutjobA San Francisco liberal would see anyone who owns a gun as a nut. A guy who only owns a bolt action deer rifle sees the San Fran guy as an idiot who can't provide his own food, but the guy who carries a pistol every day or owns an AR as a nut, and so on and so forth up the line.
This is why threads on body armor or other similar topics always generate the furball they do and lead to name calling etc: Because no one wants to think they might not be doing everything they can for their loved ones, and it's way easier to name call someone doing "more" then it would be to confront our worry that we could be doing more ourselves to protect our families. It's the same reason folks that only carry a J frame or LCP in the pocket will ask "where do you live, Iraq" if someone says they carry a 15+1 round pistol and a reload: because mocking others choices if they do "more" than us is comforting and validates our own premade decisions.
I don't really expect this to change anyone else's behavior or posting, but it has helped me try to reframe my attitude towards how people do things. You're not an idiot if you do less than me, you're not a nut if you do more...you're just a dude doing what you think is best.
Wherever other people fall on that spectrum, I'll keep owning body armor. Chances are slim I will need it, but it's a "nice to have" item for me that I can afford and like to own. Just like my fire extinguisher in the pantry and garage, or my spare tires for every car, etc, etc. Haven't used either of those ever, but...I like having them, just in case. If you don't think it's an important item, I'm not saying you're wrong and won't try to argue that you need it or are unprepared without it. You do you....just as long as you don't support passing laws keeping me from doing any of those things. And if you feel the need to name call and be petty to make yourself feel better about your own choices... I get that too. Whatever helps you sleep at night..as long as you don't make up dumb lies to justify your preexisting beliefs (for example, saying that a plate carrier takes too long to get on to be useful in a home invasion situation. If you want to tell someone you have zero actual experience with body armor there are easier ways to get that message across that require less BS being spread to the general public

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Beyond that: it's a free country, do what you want. You're not a sheep without armor, you're not uber prepared with it. It's just stuff that you can own or not as you wish, because we're an awesome country that doesn't criminalize it. Make your choice and rock on. Just try not to crap on other folks choices to make you feel better about your own decisions. That's weak sauce.