"Sharpening the saw is about constantly renewing ourselves in the four basic areas of life: physical, social/emotional, mental, and spiritual. It's the habit that increases our capacity to live all other habits of effectiveness."
-- The 8th Habit, page 153
The paradigm here is the whole person. I found out long ago that it's foolish to fall in love with your job, because it will never love you back. Look at Smithers on THE SIMPSONS. All he has in life is an unrequited crush on Mr. Burns and a very large collection of Barbie dolls.