Having a HS sr and fr currently I would say don't overthink it. If they want to do some sort of robotics camp or something fine but not a deal breaker either way. Play sports, hang with friends, chase tail, be boys. If you haven't already, have them start a log for any and all volunteering, PT jobs, service projects, etc. Write everything down no matter how little time or effort you put in. It sure is nice to reference when completing apps as a Jr.
Here is our experience...
- Top 10% - makes life a lot less stressful - our Sr missed that mark.
- Top 11-25% - Tons of great options, $$, etc but get involved. This is our spot and the options are almost limitless unless you are looking Ivy. Had he been more involved it would have helped. I'm talked outside of sports and try to be in a leadership role.
- Testing (ACT/SAT) helps even if optional or at least appears to have in our case. $$ tied to ranking/scores
- Don't forget to enjoy these 4 years... they go super fast! Kids/parents will have plenty to stress over so don't add to it by dreaming up additional crap. Most HS have opportunities to be involved you just need to do it.
One extra piece of advice for a boy that is good in math/science but sucks at writing... invest in grammar software like Grammarly! Makes a huge difference.