Owlagdad said:
ts5641 said:
We left the UMC church in 2012 after having attended my whole life and raising our kids in the church. We had a new pastor come in who was extremely liberal. He posted a pic of him shaking biden's hand on his Facebook profile. A group of us did a little digging and the UMC changed the wording on their stance on abortion. They became more agnostic on it. Also the PAC of the UMC bishops was donating to Soteroe's campaign.
We found an SBC church that isn't afraid to speak truth in a loving way, but always truth ever since.
Had a Baptist preacher tell me that the reason SBC is so conservative is that it is made up of conservatives who left liberal denominations. I am one who made fun of Baptists growing up and now am one.
I can remember back in 60s Dad throwing down the Methodist newspaper because the Methodists were supporting commies in Africa. It's always like Rush used to say, "liberals just think that things will always turn out peachy and rosy if we always just love one another etc". They are not good students of human nature.
Baptists, particularly SBC churches, aren't any better in most cases than what has been described here -- political infighting galore. In other cases, there isn't infighting -- there is just acquiescence to bad, non-faith based leadership. We're struggling with that right now.
However, they have a structural advantage in the way they're set up: the SBC church is an independent entity. If they want to stray from the SBC message, fine. The SBC, or more likely the state association, may "remove" them, but for the most part, that just means they won't accept funds from the church to the SBC (and other) cooperative program or other funds that support ministries like missions. Unlike the local Presby church (I've represented one) and the UMC churches, the denomination has no say on the property or the leadership of the church.
The time I represented the local Presby church, they had a problem with their interim pastor, assigned (or at least, recommended by) the association (I can't recall what it was called). We contacted him directly, told him that while we were paying him under his agreement, he was to get lost immediately. The association came back to us and, in a voice like a mom who would (justifiably) tell someone, "no, you're not going to tell my kid what to do...," that it was them, not the church, and certainly not me, that was going to handle it. I all but told that person to f-off, but in a church-like manner.
Last I heard, that church is no longer part of the association. Its one thing to have poor leadership at the church level. But at least those folks are there, know the people they are supposedly leading, and hear the issues. Trying to manage a church or a group of churches from a big association is a prescription for disaster. I recommend people remove themselves from any denomination that has that structure.