AgNav93 said:
Gilligan said:
I'm ok with less people.
Ya. I fail to see to see the downside of any of this. I just hope Ilive long enough to see it.
The downside is we are denying the natural order.
When I met my wife in the fall of 1997 she was a first year elementary teacher. Her job was being a teacher. Her career was to meet Mr Right, get married, and have babies. By comparison, my job and career were the same. I was motivated to make lots of money, have cool stuff, have a hot girlfriend, and have lots of fun.
Over time she "won". Marriage, kids, and some level of domestication. During the third trimester with our first kid, I went to see our pastor because I was having guilt about really not feeling anything for our child. He just laughed and said you'll be fine, wait until he's born and get back to me. He was 100% right.
My point is this. As a male, I probably could have gone through life living for myself. I would have had regrets at some point but that's what a Porsche is for. By contrast, my wife would be in an institution if she didn't have children. There is also the distinct chance I may not even be alive right now. I was reckless and impulsive before marriage and kids.
Women need motherhood. Period. Men need their own family to reign in our destructive nature. It really is science.