I want to share what I've noticed as a middle aged man that intermittently dates after a divorce. A little background. I'm 45, have three kids, went through a no fault divorce that I didn't ask for after 18 years of marriage, and have been single for four years. I honestly can't tell you what I want because I don't know. Usually what happens is I go on a couple of dates then cut it off because I just don't feel like starting all over. There's other things too but they're not relevant to the topic. Here's what I've noticed about women like the one in OP's video. Women that are coming up on middle age and going "Oh *****..what have I done?".
Middle aged women want to be "wifed up" and wifed up fast because they feel time running out and they don't want to be alone. This makes a lot of them easy prey for jerk guys because of their desperation.
There is a rash of women desperate for alpha males because they've been broken by the betas. I live in central Texas. If you read a dating app bio from a woman in Austin there is a huge amount of "Please be able to fix things around the house, be chivalrous, choose the restaurant, take me fishing, etc." You know stuff that a guy like me would consider normal behavior. And from personal experience, if you pop on a picture of you riding a bull on one of these apps (no matter how long ago it was), they'll come a running. LOL
While there are a rash of women desperate for alphas, there are quite a few that want just the opposite. They tend to have never been married, no kids, are obsessed with their careers no matter how insignificant they actually are, and want someone to basically just go on trips with, hang out in hipster wineries, go to farmer's markets, etc. Their pics usually include at least one in a mask and end their bios with "Trumpers need not apply," They just come of as acidic people.
Women have absolutely insane expectations and a lot of them are perfectly happy to make demands. I have read chapter length bios where the woman will start by saying "This is you." and then proceed to write a chapter of crap she expects of any prospective suitor. It's ridiculous.
The amount of middle aged women in Austin that are single, never married, and don't have kids that have relocated from California is nuts. Not only that but they are also nuts. They're hot but stay away.
Bonus fact: Watch out for women with only one kid that happens to be a boy. They are absolutely obsessed with the kid to the point where you will think it's almost some weird subconscious thing where they've replaced their former husband with them. LOL
ETA: What's even better is the women on these apps that are 37-41 who put "Want to have kids" in their questionnaire. Ha! Lady, that ship sailed long ago. Not only is the baby at risk at your age but I'm 45. I'm on the downhill slope and staring freedom in the face. Ain't no way I'm resetting that clock!
All in all, while I would like to be in a relationship at times, being able to do what I want, when I want is still just too much of a great thing right now.