Rascal said:
infinity ag said:
TRADUCTOR said:
You hate women... No you don't, you just hate the world where they have dongs now. lol, safety 1st, if she looks like a grenade that will pull out her pin then avoid all grenades cause you want to put the pin in 100% every time. 1% chance in this world, agree, frickenforget that.
These days so many women have an inferiority complex about being women. They think it's so nice and cool to be men. Add to that, society makes them feel like victims all the time. So many women think that they have to behave, talk and walk like men. Example: Elizabeth Holmes. Femininity is reduced and women just play the "I am a women, save me" card when it suits their convenience. Else it is "I'm a woman, hear me roar!". They complain that "there are no good men left" and then taunt a man when he behaves like a man. They love chivalry but also want to shove in "I am a strong woman, I don't need no man to open a door for me".
Women today are a confused lot.
It's a form of narcissism X childishness. Wanting it not just both ways but all ways.
College, pro, real world jobs, politics or whatever is always downstream of culture. This is just another symptom of our eroding culture.
This supersedes believing or not believing in NIL. This is sad.
It was predictable but sad to see that women supposedly wanted "opportunity" and "equality". They got it with Title IX. But now they are furthering the sexual exploitation that they were suppose to rise above. Some of these photos would drive me bananas if I'm one of their dads. This ain't women's athletics. This is soft porn.
Rascal, if you want to know what it feels like to have a daughter post pics like this, just ask me.
My step daughter got out of (Div 2 only) soccer a few years ago, before NIL hit. Due to 'daddy issues' with her bio father, she has a self esteem problem and has used social media to help. It hasn't. Far more damage than good. It just perpetuates the insecurity. I could go on and on about social media and the damage to young women.
Instead of using her college degree (industrial design), she has gotten into personal training and fitness, trying to build her 'brand'. (puke) She is in great shape and posts pics and workouts. (Sorry, no Rule #1). She goes over the line regularly. I have family members and others ask me regularly, 'did you see the pictures she posted?!'. Of course not, but you can only imagine the embarrassment I feel when people (mostly female) from 30-70 yrs old ask me that question.
She is 26. What can I do except express dismay and tell her repeatedly that I disapprove. She says, 'it is the way my generation does things, your generation are prudes. My body, my choice.' My wife and I have had multiple conversations, arguments, some screaming matches....nothing changes. I have recommended counseling. She used to go but feels she doesn't need it. She was cut off financially, but has a boyfriend who makes good money. She obsesses about her looks constantly and all she does is do photo shoots and edits her photos. It is her life. My wife has a phenomenal career and is heartbroken that her only daughter relies solely on looks, no accomplishments. AND, has to rely on a man 100% to get by financially.
It drives me bananas. And has affected our relationship deeply. As I have no kids of my own, it is a huge hole in my heart. My major regret is years ago not clamping down more on social media limits when she was younger.