MouthBQ98 said:
I lost ~55lb and it took me about a year for the first 40 and 2 more for the last 15. But it was a 30% reduction in body weight.
It takes a long time to get overweight and a long time to make the necessary changes to drop the weight AND sustain it and make it a permanent way of life. It isn't easy, but in my view it is better than slow suicide plus the general miserableness of being obese. Nothing fits, sweating, tiring easily, more body odor (don't deny it), double chins, meds, etc. After fighting back out of that hole, I don't know why so many people tolerate falling into it. I can tell you for me it was a gradual thing and I despised it, but I lacked a mechanism to change it without making major life changes and finding an adequate support structure for the process.
Lots of reasons, just off the top of my head:
- Working a demanding job with high levels of risk, stress, reward.
- Working a salary job where you can never possibly finish all the work in front of you.
- Cultural - work hard / play hard culture
- Lack of Sleep
- Easy access to foods that are no good for you (in 2003, the month I spent consulting at Microsoft in Redmond, WA, I went from drinking 2 Cokes/day to drinking 8 Cokes/day because they were free and I was working long hours under a lot of stress)
- Lack of time to prepare proper meals - I'd rather work and grab something quick to eat versus spending an hour a day in the kitchen.
- Sedentary lifestyle - I'm up over 30 lbs since the new Zoom culture started almost 3 years ago now.
- Lack of access to exercise you enjoy or are motivated to participate in - out here in California, the Governor closed the beaches in 2020 and they posted LA County Sheriff Deputies to keep you off the hiking trails. Late 2021, they started allowing indoor gyms. Early 2022, they started allowing you to remove your mask if you presented a vax card.
- Lack of motivation to exercise on your own - it's so much easier to skip exercise
- Poor diet - see my love for Cinnamon Toast Crunch and Mexican Food. The converse of that is when I first moved to Australia, I lost 20 lbs in the first month or two because I didn't have access to the foods I would normally eat. And the portion sizes were much smaller.
- Doing things like eating and drinking too much as a coping mechanism for stressors in your life due to family situations or work situations.
- Gauging your self-image based on your relatives, friends and family in places like Houston. I'm fat but... my family members who are operators at "The Plant" look just as bad so, I'm not that bad.
I've had four iterations of large weight loss in my adult life and it definitely takes a combination of diet, exercise and determination.
- 1992 - Army ROTC Advanced Camp at Ft. Lewis Washington. Six weeks of nonstop movement and limited access to food took me from 205 lbs down to 192 lbs. At 192 lbs, I looked anorexic.
- 2003 - I lost my job and spent two months not traveling, not eating out or drinking and walked my dog about 4-5 miles/day. Went from 290 lbs down to 257 lbs.
- 2007 - moved to Australia and couldn't get sugary cereals or Mexican food or American sized portions. Went from 290 lbs to 270 lbs in about two months without any exercise.
- 2011 - I decided that I was going to walk 4+ miles every day and drastically reduce my food intake and cut out certain things from my diet. Over a 4 month period, I went from about 290 lbs down to 248 lbs. Felt great. Looked great. Then I changed jobs and it's been bad health wise since then.
I had gained 50 lbs at my peak since the beginning of the California lockdowns and that's when I decided enough was enough.
I know what needs to be done. It's just finding the motivation to do it.
Which back to the OP premise. At what point on your way to 800 lbs, when do you say enough is enough? 200 lbs, 300, 400, 500, etc.
I saw the late comic Ralphie May perform at a small bar in San Diego back in 2000. He must have been 400-500 lbs at that time and was one of the largest human beings I'd ever seen. He could barely fit into the passenger seat of the SUV he was riding in (a Chevy S-10 Blazer). I know how you get to 300, 350. I have no idea how you get to 400, 500 and beyond.
To Ralphie May's credit, he could still walk. Earlier this year, I did some work at Hermann Hospital in Houston and I saw a lady on a scooter of some sort who must have been 500+. She took up the entire back of the Houston Metro Van that came to pick her up. That was crazy.