Emotional Support Cobra said:
Overspending on day to day items like starbucks, 3 meals of takeout, and fast fashion DAILY, phones, grooming, etc and not having savings is another.
Don't forget to mention the biggest waste of money, new cars with high car payments.
Also, young folks want a totally move in ready house. While I drove a $2,400 car my folks helped me buy and I drove when I was at A&M; Wife dove $5,000 car her parents helped pay for half from an auction. No car payments after paying them off.
I bought my first house for 23,000, while I was making $1,500 per month and wife was in school with part time job. Lived in father in laws home a few weeks while we fixed it up, paint and floors were so ugly and outdated. Floors were rotten in places. Plumbing was bad in some places. I didn't know what I was doing, I just jumped in and did it. Made mistakes and then just fixed mistakes. I should have paid a little money and gotten plumbers to fix more than I did but I eventually got it.
Sold it two years later for 45,000. Bought 55,000 house in better neighborhood that was outdated. Sold it for 75,000 2 years later, Bought 75,000 house from an estate that was outdated. Still had green toilet and bathtubs and stove.
Sold it for 120,000 two years later. Built 3,000 sq ft house. Loved in it for 20 years.
Folks can buy a house. They need to tighten up on spending, lower their living standards on the first house, be willing to do some work themselves. None of its that difficult, it's just the experts already have made their mistakes and know how to avoid them. Get experts for wiring and maybe plumbing. Although I did a lot of plumbing myself. Just know how to cut off the water if you mess up.

I did know how to finance things though. I got the sellers to say the purchase price was 28,000 and I had $4,000 down payment which I really only gave them $1,000. Bank financed 22,400 and I was not out of pocket much on the purchase but I needed money for remodel.
If a lot of repairs are needed , Better way would have been to get local bank to finance purchase AND remodel, then refi to 30 year mortgage after everything is fixed up.