I'm All For Feminism, But It's Kinda Making It Harder To Date

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2. Guys are started to think we don't need them anymore. Even though the feminist movement is pretty much the best thing to happen to this world since sliced bread, it's taking its toll in the dating scene. The thing is, I'm starting to get a bit of a stand-offish vibe from guys, like they're afraid to make a move, and I think it's because they think that we don't need them anymore. I'm not gonna go and cry a river for them because that's something they're gonna have to figure out within their own psyches. It's just something I've noticed and it's a bit of a shame.

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5. I've been brainwashed to assume the worst in men. All it takes is one quick scroll down my newsfeed and I have enough feminist rants to last me several winters. I think I've almost trained my brain to assume ALL men are here to try to put me down and dominate me when that's far from the truth. I've made it kind of an automatic reflex at this point, though.

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10. I SWEAR GUYS ARE APPROACHING ME LESS.

Is it just me or are guys doing a lot more looking around than actually approaching? Times are a little weird right now and I guess guys are afraid that the way they approach women might offend us or give us the wrong impression.


https://archive.is/ZlhSz#selection-1441.0-1451.170

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Doesn't sound like her life is very happy, maybe she should quit overthinking the hell out of everything.
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1. Modern feminism is the worst thing that has ever happened on this planet.

2. Most men don't give a crap. Women compete against and hate each other much more than men ever would.
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Author needs a good psychiatrist.
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ironmanag said:

1. Modern feminism is the worst thing that has ever happened on this planet.

2. Most men don't give a crap. Women compete against and hate each other much more than men ever would.
True, men spend 9 months of their life trying to get out and then the rest of their lives trying to get back in.
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1. My hand doesn't talk back to me and it cooks dinner when I'm hungry.

2. If I really need a wet hole, I can rent it.
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She sounds insane. At the same time, I don't doubt some of what she is saying. We've had threads on here before with dudes sharing their stories and it sounds like a beating out there.

Certainly doesn't help that society has generally regressed and men absolutely have to be Gun shy in this current age of social media and selfishness.
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Sad thing is most men would probably enjoy a night with Mr Hand than this judgmental progressive white liberal wench.
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Im gonna go out on a limb here; I bet her sandwiches are terrible
Do right and bear the consequences. -Sam Houston
Kashchei
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"Jennifer is a playwright, dancer and theatre nerd living in the big city of Toronto, Canada."

Can you be any more woke?
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Saltwater Assassin said:

Im gonna go out on a limb here; I bet her sandwiches are terrible
Thank you for using the word sandwich
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this is bs, the author isnt hot thats her problem
you may all go to hell and i will go to Texas
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Get a boob job and wear tighter shirts.
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ironmanag said:

1. Modern feminism is the worst thing that has ever happened on this planet.

2. Most men don't give a crap. Women compete against and hate themselves much more than men ever would.
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We are one generation away from the Japanese dating scene, where beta boys have pillows for girlfriends rather than going through the trouble of dating entitled liberal women.

Women that like real men and are OK with not going fem nazi will always have alpha guys to fight over, but the liberal crazy chicas are going to find themselves competing with cotton stuffed anime.
"Laws that forbid the carrying of arms … disarm only those who are neither inclined nor determined to commit crimes… . Such laws make things worse for the assaulted and better for the assailants; they serve rather to encourage than to prevent homicides, for an unarmed man may be attacked with greater confidence than an armed man.”

--Thomas Jefferson
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captkirk said:


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2. Guys are started to think we don't need them anymore. Even though the feminist movement is pretty much the best thing to happen to this world since sliced bread, it's taking its toll in the dating scene. The thing is, I'm starting to get a bit of a stand-offish vibe from guys, like they're afraid to make a move, and I think it's because they think that we don't need them anymore. I'm not gonna go and cry a river for them because that's something they're gonna have to figure out within their own psyches. It's just something I've noticed and it's a bit of a shame.

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5. I've been brainwashed to assume the worst in men. All it takes is one quick scroll down my newsfeed and I have enough feminist rants to last me several winters. I think I've almost trained my brain to assume ALL men are here to try to put me down and dominate me when that's far from the truth. I've made it kind of an automatic reflex at this point, though.

...

10. I SWEAR GUYS ARE APPROACHING ME LESS.

Is it just me or are guys doing a lot more looking around than actually approaching? Times are a little weird right now and I guess guys are afraid that the way they approach women might offend us or give us the wrong impression.


https://archive.is/ZlhSz#selection-1441.0-1451.170




It's funny how free markets work. Think of men as the customer, dating as the industry/market, and feminism as a barrier to entry....
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If I ask a guy out on a date, I would expect to pay, absolutely. If a guy asks me, I would expect that he shells out the money for the evening.
Guys aren't approaching you but you've asked guys out on a date.


You wanted this freedom. Buck up and do all the heavy lifting, woman.
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Why would someone want to drop a couple of bills to go out on a date with a woman like this?

If you want to see her boobs just pay $3.99 for her OnlyFans.
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Kashchei said:

"Jennifer is a playwright, dancer and theatre nerd living in the big city of Toronto, Canada."

Can you be any more woke?
Even if she had the best snatch on Earth. When you were not plowing her, that bio screams hell on Earth lib/feminazi. I'll pass. Like somebody else said, i bet her sandwiches are garbage too !!
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Clinical case of cognitive dissonance
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My advice for women.

1. Put a high price on your genitalia. It's a vagina not a 747.

2. If you meet a guy that checks your boxes, make him earn it. Make him court you. Make him woo you. You will drive him crazy by not giving it up. And when it happens, even if not until the wedding night, it will actually mean something.

3. Accept the fact that the younger generation(s) of men have been conditioned to believe sex is easy and cheap and meaningless. Or they can just turn to porn. This is a biproduct of decades of feminism. Just because you can doesn't mean you should.

4. Stop being anti science. We are hard wired to want love, sex, affection, children, and stability. It's ok to want to couple, mate, and build a structured family. It always has been.

5. The vast majority of men are instinctively protectors and providers. This is also ok. It doesn't take anything from you or rob you of anything. It's ok to let your guard down and let men be men. It's also ok to let women be women. We are not the same. We will never be the same.

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Haha. This girl is talking about the guys she WANTS. Not the metro snowflakes our society has produced.

It's a damn shame. Real men have been painted as patriarchal demons. Time for women of the younger generation to lie in the empty bed they've made. Lol.
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Urban Ag said:

My advice for women.

1. Put a high price on your genitalia. It's a vagina not a 747.

2. If you meet a guy that checks your boxes, make him earn it. Make him court you. Make him woo you. You will drive him crazy by not giving it up. And when it happens, even if not until the wedding night, it will actually mean something.

3. Accept the fact that the younger generation(s) of men have been conditioned to believe sex is easy and cheap and meaningless. Or they can just turn to porn. This is a biproduct of decades of feminism. Just because you can doesn't mean you should.

4. Stop being anti science. We are hard wired to want love, sex, affection, children, and stability. It's ok to want to couple, mate, and build a structured family. It always has been.

5. The vast majority of men are instinctively protectors and providers. This is also ok. It doesn't take anything from you or rob you of anything. It's ok to let your guard down and let men be men. It's also ok to let women be women. We are not the same. We will never be the same.


bayareaag17
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Yeah I'm a young guy in the dating scene. Most of these women my age bring absolutely nothing to the table and have the highest expectations. It's pretty strange out there. While it's never been easier to score a date, it's probably never been harder to find a girl worth keeping around. I'm sure there's a ton of men that are just as bad to be honest. Everyone is just consumed with Instagram and pretending to be rich. Personality is extremely lacking in my age group. For reference I'm 25 years old. I have some date stories that would make this board want to throw up with how entitled some of these women are lol.

I know a decent amount of guys who have checked out of dating and plan on trying to get a mid 20's girl when they're in their 30's.
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captkirk said:


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2. Guys are started to think we don't need them anymore. Even though the feminist movement is pretty much the best thing to happen to this world since sliced bread, it's taking its toll in the dating scene. The thing is, I'm starting to get a bit of a stand-offish vibe from guys, like they're afraid to make a move, and I think it's because they think that we don't need them anymore. I'm not gonna go and cry a river for them because that's something they're gonna have to figure out within their own psyches. It's just something I've noticed and it's a bit of a shame.

...

5. I've been brainwashed to assume the worst in men. All it takes is one quick scroll down my newsfeed and I have enough feminist rants to last me several winters. I think I've almost trained my brain to assume ALL men are here to try to put me down and dominate me when that's far from the truth. I've made it kind of an automatic reflex at this point, though.

...

10. I SWEAR GUYS ARE APPROACHING ME LESS.

Is it just me or are guys doing a lot more looking around than actually approaching? Times are a little weird right now and I guess guys are afraid that the way they approach women might offend us or give us the wrong impression.


https://archive.is/ZlhSz#selection-1441.0-1451.170




And yet she will **** and stay with Chad or Tyrone who will treat her like a piece of meat, toss her around during sex, and degrade her until she is his slave and then get ghosted.

What men have realized is that despite feminism, the worse you treat women the more attracted to you they become. Women decided to give it all up for free and men now all realize that almost none of them are marriage material.

And this is not even mentioning the fact that perhaps 5% of them can cook, clean, or generally do anything except post on Instagram or Onlyfans. These are people who have absolutely zero hobbies or interests outside of social media. It's like talking to a ****ing robot. Why would most men even bother?
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BusterAg said:

We are one generation away from the Japanese dating scene, where beta boys have pillows for girlfriends rather than going through the trouble of dating entitled liberal women.

Women that like real men and are OK with not going fem nazi will always have alpha guys to fight over, but the liberal crazy chicas are going to find themselves competing with cotton stuffed anime.


These women bring nothing to the table beyond a literal hole. Do not make the mistake of assuming they are anything but a walking masterbation machine. Why would any man lower himself to marry such a woman?
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bayareaag17 said:

Yeah I'm a young guy in the dating scene. Most of these women my age bring absolutely nothing to the table and have the highest expectations. It's pretty strange out there. While it's never been easier to score a date, it's probably never been harder to find a girl worth keeping around. I'm sure there's a ton of men that are just as bad to be honest. Everyone is just consumed with Instagram and pretending to be rich. Personality is extremely lacking in my age group. For reference I'm 25 years old. I have some date stories that would make this board want to throw up with how entitled some of these women are lol.

I know a decent amount of guys who have checked out of dating and plan on trying to get a mid 20's girl when they're in their 30's.
Go on dude. Spill it. I'm in my 40s and I'll go first with the stupid truck.

Ready?


I'm 22 in college and take a girl on a date. UT coed. She orders a Ceasar salad---- and without batting a f***ing eyelash, says "with ranch dressing....." ---- straight f***ing face when she says it.
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Valhalla said:

captkirk said:


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2. Guys are started to think we don't need them anymore. Even though the feminist movement is pretty much the best thing to happen to this world since sliced bread, it's taking its toll in the dating scene. The thing is, I'm starting to get a bit of a stand-offish vibe from guys, like they're afraid to make a move, and I think it's because they think that we don't need them anymore. I'm not gonna go and cry a river for them because that's something they're gonna have to figure out within their own psyches. It's just something I've noticed and it's a bit of a shame.

...

5. I've been brainwashed to assume the worst in men. All it takes is one quick scroll down my newsfeed and I have enough feminist rants to last me several winters. I think I've almost trained my brain to assume ALL men are here to try to put me down and dominate me when that's far from the truth. I've made it kind of an automatic reflex at this point, though.

...

10. I SWEAR GUYS ARE APPROACHING ME LESS.

Is it just me or are guys doing a lot more looking around than actually approaching? Times are a little weird right now and I guess guys are afraid that the way they approach women might offend us or give us the wrong impression.


https://archive.is/ZlhSz#selection-1441.0-1451.170




And yet she will **** and stay with Chad or Tyrone who will treat her like a piece of meat, toss her around during sex, and degrade her until she is his slave and then get ghosted.

What men have realized is that despite feminism, the worse you treat women the more attracted to you they become. Women decided to give it all up for free and men now all realize that almost none of them are marriage material.

And this is not even mentioning the fact that perhaps 5% of them can cook, clean, or generally do anything except post on Instagram or Onlyfans. These are people who have absolutely zero hobbies or interests outside of social media. It's like talking to a ****ing robot. Why would most men even bother?


Bingo. Most women I've been out with in the last year or so do nothing but talk about their Instagram. Many of them have no interest in being a mother or a wife. It's just so mundane. I think the chad thing is overblown but there is a hint of truth to it.
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Leftist feminazis are pretty much nothing but shrill, intolerable uggos who invented an entire philosophy to explain to themselves why it's not only okay but even desirable that quality men give them zero attention.
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bayareaag17 said:

Valhalla said:

captkirk said:


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2. Guys are started to think we don't need them anymore. Even though the feminist movement is pretty much the best thing to happen to this world since sliced bread, it's taking its toll in the dating scene. The thing is, I'm starting to get a bit of a stand-offish vibe from guys, like they're afraid to make a move, and I think it's because they think that we don't need them anymore. I'm not gonna go and cry a river for them because that's something they're gonna have to figure out within their own psyches. It's just something I've noticed and it's a bit of a shame.

...

5. I've been brainwashed to assume the worst in men. All it takes is one quick scroll down my newsfeed and I have enough feminist rants to last me several winters. I think I've almost trained my brain to assume ALL men are here to try to put me down and dominate me when that's far from the truth. I've made it kind of an automatic reflex at this point, though.

...

10. I SWEAR GUYS ARE APPROACHING ME LESS.

Is it just me or are guys doing a lot more looking around than actually approaching? Times are a little weird right now and I guess guys are afraid that the way they approach women might offend us or give us the wrong impression.


https://archive.is/ZlhSz#selection-1441.0-1451.170




And yet she will **** and stay with Chad or Tyrone who will treat her like a piece of meat, toss her around during sex, and degrade her until she is his slave and then get ghosted.

What men have realized is that despite feminism, the worse you treat women the more attracted to you they become. Women decided to give it all up for free and men now all realize that almost none of them are marriage material.

And this is not even mentioning the fact that perhaps 5% of them can cook, clean, or generally do anything except post on Instagram or Onlyfans. These are people who have absolutely zero hobbies or interests outside of social media. It's like talking to a ****ing robot. Why would most men even bother?


Bingo. Most women I've been out with in the last year or so do nothing but talk about their Instagram. Many of them have no interest in being a mother or a wife. It's just so mundane. I think the chad thing is overblown but there is a hint of truth to it.


I'm married and in my late 30s but so many guys here have not been paying attention at all to what has happened. These are guys who are all Gen x and boomers who are so out of touch that they cannot even fathom the wasteland that dating is now. I found my wife before social media became ubiquitous in dating and I am forever thankful. However, I have continued to pay attention to my friends and I read /pol/ and other places where lots of younger guys post. Your experiences are the absolute norm from what I have seen.

Social media, technology, and feminism have ruined dating pretty much forever. Ted Kaczynski was right, technology will be the death of us.
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Almost every single white American girl on dating apps these days is a huge liberal feminist. Total pain in the ass. They want to prove to you how much they don't need a man and are fine being single (then they whine to their friends that they can't find a good man). Everything is a competition to them. They want to show you how successful they are and then talk about their jobs the entire time.

That's why I stick to foreign born latinas. They haven't been infected by the liberal feminism virus. Yet.
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houag80 said:

Sad thing is most men would probably enjoy a night with Mr Hand than this judgmental progressive white liberal wench.

Without a doubt, alone is better than that crap. It's no contest.
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ea1060 said:

Almost every single white American girl on dating apps these days is a huge liberal feminist. Total pain in the ass. They want to prove to you how much they don't need a man and are fine being single (then they whine to their friends that they can't find a good man). Everything is a competition to them. They want to show you how successful they are and then talk about their jobs the entire time.

That's why I stick to foreign born latinas. They haven't been infected by the liberal feminism virus. Yet.


Never pay attention to female politics, they will mold themselves into whatever you want them to be if you get their juices flowing. It's a virtue signal, it means nothing. Lie your ass off and then change them to what you want over time. Women are natural followers so just ignore it.
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Valhalla said:

captkirk said:


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2. Guys are started to think we don't need them anymore. Even though the feminist movement is pretty much the best thing to happen to this world since sliced bread, it's taking its toll in the dating scene. The thing is, I'm starting to get a bit of a stand-offish vibe from guys, like they're afraid to make a move, and I think it's because they think that we don't need them anymore. I'm not gonna go and cry a river for them because that's something they're gonna have to figure out within their own psyches. It's just something I've noticed and it's a bit of a shame.

...

5. I've been brainwashed to assume the worst in men. All it takes is one quick scroll down my newsfeed and I have enough feminist rants to last me several winters. I think I've almost trained my brain to assume ALL men are here to try to put me down and dominate me when that's far from the truth. I've made it kind of an automatic reflex at this point, though.

...

10. I SWEAR GUYS ARE APPROACHING ME LESS.

Is it just me or are guys doing a lot more looking around than actually approaching? Times are a little weird right now and I guess guys are afraid that the way they approach women might offend us or give us the wrong impression.


https://archive.is/ZlhSz#selection-1441.0-1451.170




And yet she will **** and stay with Chad or Tyrone who will treat her like a piece of meat, toss her around during sex, and degrade her until she is his slave and then get ghosted.

What men have realized is that despite feminism, the worse you treat women the more attracted to you they become. Women decided to give it all up for free and men now all realize that almost none of them are marriage material.

And this is not even mentioning the fact that perhaps 5% of them can cook, clean, or generally do anything except post on Instagram or Onlyfans. These are people who have absolutely zero hobbies or interests outside of social media. It's like talking to a ****ing robot. Why would most men even bother?
Damn, it still hurts, huh?
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Clob94 said:

bayareaag17 said:

Yeah I'm a young guy in the dating scene. Most of these women my age bring absolutely nothing to the table and have the highest expectations. It's pretty strange out there. While it's never been easier to score a date, it's probably never been harder to find a girl worth keeping around. I'm sure there's a ton of men that are just as bad to be honest. Everyone is just consumed with Instagram and pretending to be rich. Personality is extremely lacking in my age group. For reference I'm 25 years old. I have some date stories that would make this board want to throw up with how entitled some of these women are lol.

I know a decent amount of guys who have checked out of dating and plan on trying to get a mid 20's girl when they're in their 30's.
Go on dude. Spill it. I'm in my 40s and I'll go first with the stupid truck.

Ready?


I'm 22 in college and take a girl on a date. UT coed. She orders a Ceasars salad---- andvwithout batting a f***ing eyelash, says "with ranch dressing....." ---- straight f***ing face when she says it.


Haha ok ok. Here's a date I went on about a month or so ago. Really good looking blonde girl, honestly probably a bit out of my league (although I've been told I'm a pretty good looking guy, sorry for the brag lol.) I take her to a pretty nice seafood spot and we get to talking. It starts off alright but then she starts going on a tangent about how she never wants to work and wants to be like a Kardashian. That was the first red flag. She then spent about 10 minutes talking about how she is starving herself so she can get her bikini body ready for summer. After that she starts saying how she doesn't like that I drive a 2014 Honda Civic because that's a "poor person car." I bought that car on my own and paid it off, I could get a new car if I wanted to but that would be a huge waste of money. Keep in mind this girl drives like a 2007 Kia, has no job and was fully expecting me to pay for our $80/plate dinner. We keep talking and she brings up her Instagram (talk about a boring and vain topic) and I mention that I don't have an Instagram or any social media. She says "oh well you must be a loser then." I asked why that's the case and she said "well the only people who don't have Instagram are the people who can't get any followers." I laughed and said that's one of the dumbest things I've ever heard anyone say. After that she starts talking about how she never gets anywhere with men and how she hates them because they're all just awful. I was kind of at the end of my rope at this point and told her that it's probably not the men that are awful, it's her and her personality. After I said that I flagged down the waitress, told her to split the bill down the middle, paid my half and walked out of the restaurant.

I feel bad for whatever poor sap ends up with her because she's good looking and they don't have the nuts to say enough is enough. She was clearly just some gold digger who had no idea she was on a date with a guy who is doing pretty damn well for a 25 year old but doesn't flaunt it because I feel 0 need to keep up with the Jones'.
 
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