The Banned said:dermdoc said:10andBOUNCE said:
If I were, I would get what I deserve.
But the "P" in TULIP is my favorite. The Lord Jesus will ensure his flock will endure to the end, if we are truly His. What good shepherd would actually allow his little sheep to wander off and be consumed by the enemy? Not mine.
While we can all find ourselves in seasons of doubt, I know I belong to Jesus. Not because I ate of a specific loaf or was baptized at just the right time, but because I know who Christ is, what He did me on the cross, and I have placed all of my trust in him, albeit in a very flawed and incomplete way. I desire to mold my life after Christ as Scripture has outlined, and I aim to carry on until my time on Earth is over.
How can you have kids with this theology?
Well, since God is totally sovereign in this theology, did he really have any choice but to have kids? If God wants X number of kids for His elect from 10&B, what can 10&B do to stop Him?
My point is that I could not have kids knowing that they could be preordained to ECT hell. And I and they have no control over it.
But that is me. And like I said I applaud Calvinists for their faith. I personally can not go there. And when I tried it nearly destroyed me. If Calvinists are correct, then maybe it is because I am preordained to ECT hell is why I can't agree with TULIP.
i had no choice in being created. I am here. According to TULIP, my fate is sealed. Either ECT hell or heaven. I can do nothing to change that so it is done.
I do have control over whether I have kids. And I would not if I believed in TULIP.Unless God, who I believe is omnipotent, had my wife become pregnant, then have a kid (we do not believe in abortion), and preordain that child to ECT hell for His glory according to Calvinists.
To me (and I am only talking about myself), that would make God worse than Hitler. Preordained ETERNAL conscious hell for a child I love. I can not fathom that. But that is me. And when I tried to believe it, I nearly killed myself with booze and sleeping pills.
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