10andBOUNCE said:
The Banned said:
Martin Q. Blank said:
PabloSerna said:
Serious question, how is this any different than taking a vow to live a chaste life as a heterosexual?
Maybe it's different for Catholics, but a sinful desire is still sin, regardless if you act on it. Jesus' teaching on lust and adultery, for example.
Personally I think the seminary is ill suited for men attracted to other men. I don't think me living with a bunch of women would be good for me from a "near occasion of sin" standpoint, and I assume it would be similar for men attracted to other men.
This is common sense and should in my opinion DQ those that have that struggle. Above reproach.
I would be very curious to know how it all works behind the scenes. Is it something that is being addressed via accountability or just something that gets self reported, or what.
They go to confession frequently. If the priest they confess to is good, he's telling them to talk to their spiritual director. Spiritual director makes a call on how fit they are. If they are acting on it (in real life or digitally) it should be a disqualifier.
I once heard that a man who has no desire to have kids of his own should not become a priest. You are sacrificing natural fatherhood for the sake of spiritual fatherhood to bring about God's kingdom. If you don't want kids, then you don't need a multitude of spiritual children you are responsible for leading.
I think this can go the same for men with male attractions. There are men in this world who have left a gay lifestyle, married women, had kids and live a "normal" life. It can happen, and because of that, I think it could happen for seminarians. But if you never get control of the issue, you are not aligned with biological fatherhood or spiritual fatherhood. Continue to relent, pray and seek holiness, but do it as a lay man.