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Is it fair to say, at the very least, God chooses to reveal himself in bigger or lesser ways (as he did to Paul)? Since we can agree that none of us likely had anything close to his conversion story?
I'm not sure about bigger or lesser ways. I think He is more direct with some people than with others, but we are also the beneficiaries of that revelation. The consistent story of God is that He chooses to work through humanity to save humanity.
God reveals Himself to Abraham, and through Abraham forms a new people Israel. God reveals Himself to Moses, and through Moses reveals Himself to Israel, and the Egyptians, and the whole world - as He says in various ways over and over again in the scriptures "I will reveal Myself in the sight of many nations. Then they will know that I am Yahweh."
The ultimate expression of this is the Incarnation, where Christ saves Mankind by joining human nature to the divine nature in Himself, saving mankind through mankind.
The beautiful part about this is that when we do good works, it is not our works we do but His. We become His hands and feet, as St Paul says... we become the Body of Christ, which is animated and made alive by the Holy Spirit, so the works we do are truly Good, because they're God's work's done by Him. The pattern of God saving mankind through mankind continues in our lives, and this participation is actually grace to us and the world.
He also each of us grace sufficient for our salvation, moving toward us, turning what we mean for evil to good, because He desires that all are saved. It's easy to say St Paul had a bigger role, but you don't know the scope of your impact on the Body. It's God willing and working through us, together.