Catholic Church Sex Abuse Scandal thoughts

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In light of the Pope's unexpected bluntness about keeping "queerness" or "f*ggotry" out of the seminaries; I'm curious as to what the current beliefs are regarding the Catholic sex abuse scandal.

I believe, and think it has been shown that the sex scandal was mainly an issue of power abuse between homosexual clergy and post pubescent young men. This issue was further abetted by careerist politician-bishops who cared more about keeping their name out of headlines than they did protecting their flock and the reputation of the priesthood.

How much of this could have been avoided by actually screening seminary candidates for those with homosexual predilections? In the day and age of social media, it would seem pretty easy to get an idea of someone's sexuality through their media pages and interviews with their connections. B
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Are you saying that there were no pedophiles, just homosexual priests?
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PabloSerna said:

Are you saying that there were no pedophiles, just homosexual priests?


No, I am saying that the vast majority of abuse cases were between priests and young post pubescent males, this makes the issue a homosexual one, and not a pedophile one. The John Jay report discussed an explosion of gay clergy in the 70's and 80's following Vatican II, and it is my belief that these gay clergy had an outsized participation in the abuse.
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PabloSerna said:

Are you saying that there were no pedophiles, just homosexual priests?


I think it's more than fair to say a plurality of them checked both boxes
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But you don't know that for sure huh?
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So, there is no actual transcript of the Pope's words, just what some are reporting to give this context. Let's see what comes out. On the surface it appears that he is saying it is a bad idea to put men who are sexually attracted to other men in close living quarters. That seems reasonable. I am not aware of co-ed convents where religious men and women share the same rooms?

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PabloSerna said:

So, there is no actual transcript of the Pope's words, just what some are reporting to give this context. Let's see what comes out. On the surface it appears that he is saying it is a bad idea to put men who are sexually attracted to other men in close living quarters. That seems reasonable. I am not aware of co-ed convents where religious men and women share the same rooms?




I know Opus Dei was pilloried for having segregated spiritual activities
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Serviam said:

In light of the Pope's unexpected bluntness about keeping "queerness" or "f*ggotry" out of the seminaries; I'm curious as to what the current beliefs are regarding the Catholic sex abuse scandal.

I believe, and think it has been shown that the sex scandal was mainly an issue of power abuse between homosexual clergy and post pubescent young men. This issue was further abetted by careerist politician-bishops who cared more about keeping their name out of headlines than they did protecting their flock and the reputation of the priesthood.

How much of this could have been avoided by actually screening seminary candidates for those with homosexual predilections? In the day and age of social media, it would seem pretty easy to get an idea of someone's sexuality through their media pages and interviews with their connections. B

To me, the tragedy of the Catholic Church scandals is not that a homosexual act was committed. The tragedy is that a priest, or person of power, used their position to take sexual advantage of a child or teen.

Even when I try to put myself into the shoes of someone who sees homosexuality as a sin, I have a hard time prioritizing the 'sin of homosexuality' over the sin of sexually abusing a child.

And I don't think its fair to fault an organization for the abuses of any and all of its members. What matters is how an organization reacts when an abuse occurs. Screening for predators is all good. Protecting known predators, moving them around, reassigning them, hiding their abuses, etc. . . . that is the betrayal.

edit - In other words, the Church's problem isn't 'gays in the ministry'. The problem is the intentional enabling of child sexual abuse. I think we fundamentally disagree on the problem with the scandal.
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kurt vonnegut said:

Serviam said:

In light of the Pope's unexpected bluntness about keeping "queerness" or "f*ggotry" out of the seminaries; I'm curious as to what the current beliefs are regarding the Catholic sex abuse scandal.

I believe, and think it has been shown that the sex scandal was mainly an issue of power abuse between homosexual clergy and post pubescent young men. This issue was further abetted by careerist politician-bishops who cared more about keeping their name out of headlines than they did protecting their flock and the reputation of the priesthood.

How much of this could have been avoided by actually screening seminary candidates for those with homosexual predilections? In the day and age of social media, it would seem pretty easy to get an idea of someone's sexuality through their media pages and interviews with their connections. B

To me, the tragedy of the Catholic Church scandals is not that a homosexual act was committed. The tragedy is that a priest, or person of power, used their position to take sexual advantage of a child or teen.

Even when I try to put myself into the shoes of someone who sees homosexuality as a sin, I have a hard time prioritizing the 'sin of homosexuality' over the sin of sexually abusing a child.

And I don't think its fair to fault an organization for the abuses of any and all of its members. What matters is how an organization reacts when an abuse occurs. Screening for predators is all good. Protecting known predators, moving them around, reassigning them, hiding their abuses, etc. . . . that is the betrayal.

edit - In other words, the Church's problem isn't 'gays in the ministry'. The problem is the intentional enabling of child sexual abuse. I think we fundamentally disagree on the problem with the scandal.
Remove the homosexual clergy and there would have been much less of a problem. Any problem is too much of a problem, but whenever you can limit harm, you should. 81% of the victims were male; most were teenagers and above, for some reason when Harvey Milk does it he gets a battleship named after him, but when Catholic priests do it, it is an abuse of power (which I agree, both should be executed).

So the entirety of the problem isn't "gays in the ministry", the problem was in large part the enabling of sexual abuse by weak Bishops, and the preponderance of homosexuals in the clergy, effete bishops protecting gay men trying to have sex with males who looked like men.
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Serviam said:

kurt vonnegut said:



To me, the tragedy of the Catholic Church scandals is not that a homosexual act was committed. The tragedy is that a priest, or person of power, used their position to take sexual advantage of a child or teen.

Even when I try to put myself into the shoes of someone who sees homosexuality as a sin, I have a hard time prioritizing the 'sin of homosexuality' over the sin of sexually abusing a child.

And I don't think its fair to fault an organization for the abuses of any and all of its members. What matters is how an organization reacts when an abuse occurs. Screening for predators is all good. Protecting known predators, moving them around, reassigning them, hiding their abuses, etc. . . . that is the betrayal.

edit - In other words, the Church's problem isn't 'gays in the ministry'. The problem is the intentional enabling of child sexual abuse. I think we fundamentally disagree on the problem with the scandal.
Remove the homosexual clergy and there would have been much less of a problem. Any problem is too much of a problem, but whenever you can limit harm, you should. 81% of the victims were male; most were teenagers and above, for some reason when Harvey Milk does it he gets a battleship named after him, but when Catholic priests do it, it is an abuse of power (which I agree, both should be executed).

So the entirety of the problem isn't "gays in the ministry", the problem was in large part the enabling of sexual abuse by weak Bishops, and the preponderance of homosexuals in the clergy, effete bishops protecting gay men trying to have sex with males who looked like men.


Homosexuality is more prevalent in prisons because of lack of options and because it is symptomatic of power differences. I don't think it would be controversial for me to point out that straight people go to prison and end up engaging in homosexuality acts for various reasons. I don't know how much of a role it plays, but I wonder if something similar occurs in churches. How often does a 'celibate' priest abuse a boy because of a lack of options and because of a power indifference that allows them to get away with it? I don't know the answer to that question, but I believe its probably significant.

As I understand Christianity, we are all sinners and all have temptations toward some sin. I don't think Christians would wish to filter out all seminarian candidates who have been tempted to steal, or lie, or cheat, or have heterosexual sex out of wedlock. If the Catholic Church had had tens of thousands of scandals involving priests stealing money and then covering it up, should that 'sin' be treated any differently?

So again, I think the focus on homosexuality is the wrong focus. It is inevitable that some priests will have temptations that you find immoral. And I think its inevitable that some will act on it. I don't blame the Catholic Church for a betrayal by one priest toward a minor. The justified condemnation of the Catholic Church has to do with the cover up and protection of the offending priests.

When you have corrupt individuals operating in a corrupt organization, you haven't fixed the corruption of the organization by removing some of the corrupt individuals. There is still an institutional problem that is unresolved.

And Milk is a deflection. I'm not defending his underage relationship by any means, but since when do Catholics believe that societal double standards have some bearing on what is the right thing to be done within their organization? That might be stretching too far or putting words in your mouth. If so, I apologize. My point is that Milk getting a battleship named after him has precisely zero to do with what would have been the correct action by the Catholic Church upon learning of a priest that was abusing someone.
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. I don't know how much of a role it plays, but I wonder if something similar occurs in churches
you realize priests still talk to and interact with women every day, right? Ive seen reports that jesuits are 40-60% homosexual, but its hard to filter out people who just dont like jesuits.
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kurt vonnegut said:

Serviam said:

kurt vonnegut said:



To me, the tragedy of the Catholic Church scandals is not that a homosexual act was committed. The tragedy is that a priest, or person of power, used their position to take sexual advantage of a child or teen.

Even when I try to put myself into the shoes of someone who sees homosexuality as a sin, I have a hard time prioritizing the 'sin of homosexuality' over the sin of sexually abusing a child.

And I don't think its fair to fault an organization for the abuses of any and all of its members. What matters is how an organization reacts when an abuse occurs. Screening for predators is all good. Protecting known predators, moving them around, reassigning them, hiding their abuses, etc. . . . that is the betrayal.

edit - In other words, the Church's problem isn't 'gays in the ministry'. The problem is the intentional enabling of child sexual abuse. I think we fundamentally disagree on the problem with the scandal.
Remove the homosexual clergy and there would have been much less of a problem. Any problem is too much of a problem, but whenever you can limit harm, you should. 81% of the victims were male; most were teenagers and above, for some reason when Harvey Milk does it he gets a battleship named after him, but when Catholic priests do it, it is an abuse of power (which I agree, both should be executed).

So the entirety of the problem isn't "gays in the ministry", the problem was in large part the enabling of sexual abuse by weak Bishops, and the preponderance of homosexuals in the clergy, effete bishops protecting gay men trying to have sex with males who looked like men.


Homosexuality is more prevalent in prisons because of lack of options and because it is symptomatic of power differences. I don't think it would be controversial for me to point out that straight people go to prison and end up engaging in homosexuality acts for various reasons. I don't know how much of a role it plays, but I wonder if something similar occurs in churches. How often does a 'celibate' priest abuse a boy because of a lack of options and because of a power indifference that allows them to get away with it? I don't know the answer to that question, but I believe its probably significant.

As I understand Christianity, we are all sinners and all have temptations toward some sin. I don't think Christians would wish to filter out all seminarian candidates who have been tempted to steal, or lie, or cheat, or have heterosexual sex out of wedlock. If the Catholic Church had had tens of thousands of scandals involving priests stealing money and then covering it up, should that 'sin' be treated any differently?

So again, I think the focus on homosexuality is the wrong focus. It is inevitable that some priests will have temptations that you find immoral. And I think its inevitable that some will act on it. I don't blame the Catholic Church for a betrayal by one priest toward a minor. The justified condemnation of the Catholic Church has to do with the cover up and protection of the offending priests.

When you have corrupt individuals operating in a corrupt organization, you haven't fixed the corruption of the organization by removing some of the corrupt individuals. There is still an institutional problem that is unresolved.

And Milk is a deflection. I'm not defending his underage relationship by any means, but since when do Catholics believe that societal double standards have some bearing on what is the right thing to be done within their organization? That might be stretching too far or putting words in your mouth. If so, I apologize. My point is that Milk getting a battleship named after him has precisely zero to do with what would have been the correct action by the Catholic Church upon learning of a priest that was abusing someone.
I would imagine that there is a difference between being locked in a completely male-only environment instead of being around men a lot. If you've ever been into the parish offices of a Catholic Church, they're almost all staffed by women, with men normally only in maintenance roles.

With regards to the nature of homosexual urges, the Church recognizes that there are unique circumstances that make it extremely difficult for homosexuals to get through seminary, mainly that they're around young men quite frequently. The church also recognizes that homosexuality is gravely disordered and not merely a difference in attraction. Any candidate who shows a propensity towards stealing, lying, cheating, or fornicating should be barred from the priesthood, that should go without being said.

With regards to the Harvey Milk case, I'll explain my answer. Most random lefties that I know think the Catholic Church abuse scandal involved a bunch of priests raping actual children, despite the truth being that the vast majority of it was more accurately described as sexual abuse of a teenager. These same people lionize Harvey Milk to such a level that a battleship was named after the guy. As I've mentioned, I don't hold the Catholic church up to the standards of Harvey Milk; I believe any Priest who abuses anyone should be executed after a trial and period of reconciliation. I make the point only to show that those who wag their finger at the church, while celebrating Milk are just using it as an excuse to engage in good ole anti-catholic bias.
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Interesting to see someone on the materialist side seem to agree that homosexuality is, at least in part, a choice. Most seem to be on the "born this way" side.

As to the matter at hand, you are correct. The issue was primarily the institutionalization of it, all the way back to the seminaries. It's anecdotal, but several former seminarians have come out saying that they were asked to leave the seminary/forced out for bringing homosexual issues in the seminary to light. It appears there were a number of rectors that were not just allowing gay men into the seminary, but were attempting to form a sort of gay contingent in order to make it easier access to sex. There was less hiding it, and no need to go find it elsewhere. Several priests and seminarians have gone down in flames when caught with a male prostitute. This made it easier.

It's also been told that there were predatory practices in the seminaries themselves. Men who were not homosexually inclined but were approached anyway, and often times repeatedly. Reporting it could get you kicked out.

All of this led to the scandal that happened, although I do think it's important to say it was a tiny minority of priests who actually did these things. Unfortunately they had a bit of a club going and plenty of opportunity for blackmail. I think the weak bishops were often reassigning priests out of self-preservation more than anything. They didn't want their own dirty laundry aired.
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PabloSerna said:

Are you saying that there were no pedophiles, just homosexual priests?
From the John Jay report:


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The largest group of alleged victims (50.9%) was between the ages of 11 and 14, 27.3% were 15-17, 16% were 8-10 and nearly 6% were under age 7. Overall, 81% of victims were male and 19% female. Male victims tended to be older than female victims. Over 40% of all victims were males between the ages of 11 and 14.


81% of victims were male
78% were post-pubescent

So, there is a homosexual pederasty problem, not equal opportunity pedophilia.

2004_02_27_John_Jay_Main_Report_Optimized.pdf (bishop-accountability.org)

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Is there another to view human nature besides power dynamics? I mean, not every person in power exploits those beneath them, right?
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The Banned said:

Interesting to see someone on the materialist side seem to agree that homosexuality is, in at least part, a choice. Most seem to be on the "born this way" side.

As to the matter at hand, you are correct. The issue was primarily the institutionalization of it, all the way back to the seminaries. It's anecdotal, but several former seminarians have come out saying that they were asked to leave the seminary/forced out for bringing homosexual issues in the seminary to light. It appears there were a number of rectors that were not just allowing gay men into the seminary, but were attempting to form a sort of gay contingent in order to make it easier access to sex. There was less hiding it, and no need to go find it elsewhere. Several priests and seminarians have gone down in flames when caught with a male prostitute. This made it easier.

It's also been told that there were predatory practices in the seminaries themselves. Men who were not homosexually inclined but were approached anyway, and often times repeatedly. Reporting it could get you kicked out.

All of this led to the scandal that happened, although I do think it's important to say it was a tiny minority of priests who actually did these things. Unfortunately they had a bit of a club going and plenty of opportunity for blackmail. I think the weak bishops were often reassigning priests out of self-preservation more than anything. They didn't want their own dirty laundry aired.

I find myself in the camp with those that believe homosexuality to be more about predisposition than life choices - though I don't view it nearly as black and white as most religious people do. One could chose to engage in homosexuality for different reasons and could do so in opposition to their predisposition. Prison, again, being a very applicable example. People act in opposition to the 'way they are born' all the time.

I don't really take exception to the rest of your post. Like I said, I don't hold it against the Church that they have hired some 'bad apples'. The handling, I think, was / is a problem. And I think you've agreed to that.
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Serviam said:


I would imagine that there is a difference between being locked in a completely male-only environment instead of being around men a lot. If you've ever been into the parish offices of a Catholic Church, they're almost all staffed by women, with men normally only in maintenance roles.

With regards to the nature of homosexual urges, the Church recognizes that there are unique circumstances that make it extremely difficult for homosexuals to get through seminary, mainly that they're around young men quite frequently. The church also recognizes that homosexuality is gravely disordered and not merely a difference in attraction. Any candidate who shows a propensity towards stealing, lying, cheating, or fornicating should be barred from the priesthood, that should go without being said.

With regards to the Harvey Milk case, I'll explain my answer. Most random lefties that I know think the Catholic Church abuse scandal involved a bunch of priests raping actual children, despite the truth being that the vast majority of it was more accurately described as sexual abuse of a teenager. These same people lionize Harvey Milk to such a level that a battleship was named after the guy. As I've mentioned, I don't hold the Catholic church up to the standards of Harvey Milk; I believe any Priest who abuses anyone should be executed after a trial and period of reconciliation. I make the point only to show that those who wag their finger at the church, while celebrating Milk are just using it as an excuse to engage in good ole anti-catholic bias.

Like I said, I really don't know how much weight to attribute these scandals to 'opportunity' and 'power dynamics'. I sorta floated the idea out there to see what everyone else's thoughts were. Yes, churches are full of women and many women work at the churches. But, I still would argue that a 15 year old boy is less likely to call out a priest than 55 year old, married, with four kids Martha how runs the fundraisers. I still think there is a difference in power dynamic between these two examples. And again. . . . . I don't know what kind of role it plays - its fodder for discussion.

I still don't see the point of the Harvey Milk example as anything other than a finger wagging at a rival political group for hypocrisy or unfair bias. Unless those leftists are to blame for priests engaging in sexual activity with underage boys and then covering it up. . . . I think you've introduced politics where it need not be introduced. Don't you feel that the actions of the Church should be evaluated independently of what Joe Lefty thinks of Harvey Milk???
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Random question:

Who administers confession for priests? It is the local bishop, a fellow priest or what? And what happens if a priest confesses something like this to a bishop or another priest? Can the person hearing confession share or act on that information?
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ramblin_ag02 said:

Random question:

Who administers confession for priests? It is the local bishop, a fellow priest or what? And what happens if a priest confesses something like this to a bishop or another priest? Can the person hearing confession share or act on that information?

Priests would confess to another priest, possibly a spiritual advisor of theirs. Although a Bishop could hear their confession as well. The confessor is bound by sacred oath not to reveal anything disclosed in confession. This is something that many states and countries are currently trying to force the church to comply with. I think the seal of confession should be protected at all costs. However the priest hearing the confession could place turning oneself in as part of the penance. However one wonders who these priests would choose to confess to if it were to another priest of similar proclivities it may not make a difference. Also, priests who betray their oaths this severely may not have the faith that would incline them to seek reconciliation with Christ, which would be the motivation to confess to begin with.
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Thank you! It just seems really strange to me. It seems like the confession would be the sort of thing that keeps this sort of thing from getting out of hand. Something like, "wow, ok Paul. That's a big deal and let's do something about it"
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Pederasty and the RCC priesthood has been a well documented thing. So has homosexuality.

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The notion that many Catholic priests are quietly gay is not new. In the 2000 book "The Changing Face of the Priesthood," Rev. Donald B. Cozzens suggested that the priesthood was increasingly becoming a gay profession. Cozzens estimated that as much as 58 percent of priests were gay, and that percentages were even higher for younger priests. His numbers matched previous estimates by sociologists who put the numbers of gay priests between 10 and 60 percent.

Father Gary Meier, a gay, St. Louis-based Catholic clergymen, says there's a wide range of statistics out there on gay priests, but jokes that in his experience, "30 percent are gay, 30 percent are straight, and 30 percent are in denial."
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No doubt there's an issue in the Church with respect to the abuse of minors. The John Jay report gave us a glimpse into where the preponderance of abuse came from. Thanks to Athanasius for sharing. And it's germane to the Holy Father's crass comments.

Yet, I don't think many of the power brokers in the episcopate really get it nor do they care. Take for instance "Uncle" Ted McCarrick. He was one of the architects of the Dallas Charter in the aftermath of 2002 and Cardinal Law, wherein the laity were the main ones subjected to training and hoops-jumping to volunteer in the parish. Yet, 2018 would have his pederast ways revealed. I'm still bitter at being lectured on how to behave by the American Church's biggest pederast offender. Further, he was a king maker and had high influence in Rome and DC. The victim that ultimately exposed this arch-hypocrite implicates Cardinal Bernadin in this sex abuse cabal as well as satanic rituals.

Giving witness to the problem with homosexual clergy was the Rudy Kos debacle in Dallas. I recall news stories about it in my youth. One point that has stuck with me was he "married" some time before his ordination to the priesthood, yet it was reported that the wedding was never consummated. Odd. Very odd.

Further witness to the homosexual clergy issue was the priest in my high school. He frequented the boys locker room during first period where frosh hoops and football as well as cross country runners were getting ready for second period after early morning practice. Odd. His mannerisms were stereotypical. After being reassigned to a parish, he offended against young teens. Last I knew, his new profession was massage therapist.

Priests I know well have mentioned some issues of this proclivity in their seminary days. Multiple priests. Lavender Mafia is a term some use.

Bella Dodd, former pinko commie, and others testify before Congress regarding recruiting men of bad morals to get into the seminaries as sort of a way to corrupt it from within.

The last 6+ years have been revealing and I see several fault lines. Kyrie Eleison.
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My uncle was a Roman Catholic priest. He has passed away. During the time that all of this was getting exposed, he put a lot of the blame on homosexuality within the priesthood. He said that he had a natural attraction to women and that he was making a huge sacrifice in becoming a priest in that he knew he would never marry and have children. Others, unfortunately, within his seminary were really not giving up anything at all. Some of the seminaries were known as "Pink palaces" where young men with homosexual tendencies could go, meet, and continue to carry on homosexual activities fairly freely. Unfortunately, once they got out into parishes and were no longer in a situation where they had significant access to other homosexual males, they found victims within their parishes and schools, etc. This is certainly consistent with the fact that the majority of victims were post pubertal males.
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The problem is the intentional enabling of child sexual abuse. We disagree on the problem with the scandal.
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Athanasius said:



81% of victims were male
78% were post-pubescent

So, there is a homosexual pederasty problem, not equal opportunity pedophilia.
Last thing I'll say and then I'll go away.

When I think about the Church sex scandals, the biggest 'sins' that jump out to me is inappropriate sexual conduct with underage persons and the intentional cover up of those actions. When I consider these scandals from a Christian perspective, I understand the introduction of the sin of homosexuality to be among the list. However, when I prioritize these sins, I have a hard time putting homosexuality above pedophilia. In other words, the worst part of 'homosexual pederasty' is the pedophilia bit, right?

I don't want to trivialize how wrong Christians think homosexuality is. But, don't we think it is much worse for Church leaders to be sexual preying on underage persons? Your post to me above reads as "Because most of the victims are boys, the sexual abuse against the girls is not a problem". Your post above suggests 19% victims were female which equates to tens of thousands of sexual abuses against girls. And in the last sentence, you exclude those tens of thousands of abuses from the 'problem'.

Surely heterosexual child abuse also deserves condemnation? On the scale of sins, is heterosexual pedophilia 'less bad' than homosexual pedophilia to such a degree as to make heterosexual pedophilia inconsequential?

Anyway, I know I've crossed the line of putting words in your mouth, but this is how your post (and several others in this thread) come off to me as an outsider. . . . for what its worth.

I think of the Church having a sexual abuse problem. And homosexual pederasty is a sub-category of the problem.
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And homosexual pederasty is a sub-category of the problem.
Overall I don't disagree with the gist of your posts on this thread however homosexual pederasty is not an insignificant part of they problem.

Personally I believe the sexual orientation of my parish priest is none of my concern at long as he is chaste..

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The Church still had a better record than the average public school, so in terms of a "problem", I don't think sexual abuse is the main issue. As you pointed out prior, the issue was the coverup. And 80% of those coverups came from that particular "sub-category". That group had a standard operating procedure to bail each other out. If that group was removed, the issue becomes much, much smaller. It's not that gay abuse is worse than straight abuse. It's that this group was highly effective at covering for each other. "Uncle" Ted McCarrack is an excellent example. Even if another bishop wanted to come down hard on a priest, he'd have to answer to this incredibly powerful individual that could easily ruin his career/vocation.

The one question I don't have an answer to is this: were heterosexual abuses covered up just as much as the homosexual abuses, particularly the underage ones. Maybe that's in the report and I don't remember it.

And while I wouldn't agree with it, I think covering up a priest having an affair with an adult female is more understandable. Two consenting adults doing something wrong. A relocation could make sense if it was just a romantic fling. A pattern of using your power to get women would be different.
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I think you may have understood us or at least me. We're not discussing the sinful nature of homosexual actions, but that the homosexual attraction contributed to the abuse; to put it plainly that so many abuse cases happened because the priests were gay, not merely because they were sinning through homosexual actions.

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"I don't want to trivialize how wrong Christians think homosexuality is."

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Since this started off about Catholics, I wanted to point out that your line of reasoning is off with this statement.

Human sexuality is seen as a gift from God. To see it any another way is to exclude the Creator from the procreative process.

What is "wrong" is not the human sexuality, but rather that it is an action apart from this sacred process endowed by the Creator.

At this point in time, there is no "right" way to have homosexual relations in a sacred bond that respects the body of each person and God ("and" being the operative word). However, for heterosexual persons, the sacrament of Holy Marriage is such a bond that we believe God established for the family.

So, it is equally wrong for heterosexual relationships outside of this sacred bond (cohabitation, common law marriage) The church calls this arrangement "living in sin." Sin means to "miss the mark".

I don't know if that adds any to your understanding - just thought I would try to fill in a few gaps.
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Serviam said:

In light of the Pope's unexpected bluntness about keeping "queerness" or "f*ggotry" out of the seminaries; I'm curious as to what the current beliefs are regarding the Catholic sex abuse scandal.

I believe, and think it has been shown that the sex scandal was mainly an issue of power abuse between homosexual clergy and post pubescent young men. This issue was further abetted by careerist politician-bishops who cared more about keeping their name out of headlines than they did protecting their flock and the reputation of the priesthood.

How much of this could have been avoided by actually screening seminary candidates for those with homosexual predilections? In the day and age of social media, it would seem pretty easy to get an idea of someone's sexuality through their media pages and interviews with their connections. B


You do realize, despite the protestations of many seeking to scape goat homosexuality, that there are a very large number of cases where victims have been female right?
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Ag_of_08 said:

Serviam said:

In light of the Pope's unexpected bluntness about keeping "queerness" or "f*ggotry" out of the seminaries; I'm curious as to what the current beliefs are regarding the Catholic sex abuse scandal.

I believe, and think it has been shown that the sex scandal was mainly an issue of power abuse between homosexual clergy and post pubescent young men. This issue was further abetted by careerist politician-bishops who cared more about keeping their name out of headlines than they did protecting their flock and the reputation of the priesthood.

How much of this could have been avoided by actually screening seminary candidates for those with homosexual predilections? In the day and age of social media, it would seem pretty easy to get an idea of someone's sexuality through their media pages and interviews with their connections. B


You do realize, despite the protestations of many seeking to scape goat homosexuality, that there are a very large number of cases where victims have been female right?
Wow, way to jump into a thread, read the OP, skip the next 30 responses, and post something that shows it. Numbers and percentages have been discussed.
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The problem is the intentional enabling of child sexual abuse.
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Here's my bona fides: gay man, legally married, regularly practicing and would be described by most people as "devout." I would term it as trying my best to remain as true to "orthodoxy" as possible.

The issue was (and to the extent that it remains) homosexuality in the priesthood. The abuse of post-pubescent minors (as opposed to pedophilia) was and is a crime against God. It happened because men who couldn't deal with their sexuality sought to "escape" into the priesthood. Low and behold, that plan failed. The same pattern is repeated all the time in gay relationships. A person suppresses their sexual identity for years. They have gone through the dating and mating rituals in the same stages and phases as the society. When they later "come out," they revert back to an adolescent mindset. They practice dating and mating in a way that mirrors those practices during that stage of human development--but with one HUGE exception. There are no limits imposed by their partners to encourage virtuous development of sexuality. The relationship development that would come in a healthy situation becomes only a self-pleasure focused bacchanalia. So, yes, homosexuality in the priesthood was the root and branch cause of the crisis of abuse of minors.

Final note because it's important: I am close friends with a former priest. Seminary in the late 70's and early 80s. He left the priesthood because he's gay. There have never been nor do I expect there to be accusations against him. He was faithful to his vows until he punched out. However, he's shared plenty of stories of seminary and priesthood. Everyone knew who was gay. Everyone expected that they would not be faithful to God or to their vows. By their own estimates, at least 80% of these gay men slept around together in seminary, and a similar although slightly smaller number had homosexual relations with other priests and non-clerics (although not minors) during their active priesthood.

The "lavender mafia" didn't believe in celibacy. They didn't encourage anyone else to believe in it. They openly mocked the idea. They encouraged their brothers to disregard their vows.
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Crocker91 said:

Here's my bona fides: gay man, legally married, regularly practicing and would be described by most people as "devout." I would term it as trying my best to remain as true to "orthodoxy" as possible.

The issue was (and to the extent that it remains) homosexuality in the priesthood. The abuse of post-pubescent minors (as opposed to pedophilia) was and is a crime against God. It happened because men who couldn't deal with their sexuality sought to "escape" into the priesthood. Low and behold, that plan failed. The same pattern is repeated all the time in gay relationships. A person suppresses their sexual identity for years. They have gone through the dating and mating rituals in the same stages and phases as the society. When they later "come out," they revert back to an adolescent mindset. They practice dating and mating in a way that mirrors those practices during that stage of human development--but with one HUGE exception. There are no limits imposed by their partners to encourage virtuous development of sexuality. The relationship development that would come in a healthy situation becomes only a self-pleasure focused bacchanalia. So, yes, homosexuality in the priesthood was the root and branch cause of the crisis of abuse of minors.

Final note because it's important: I am close friends with a former priest. He left the priesthood because he's gay. There have never been nor do I expect there to be accusations against him. He was faithful to his vows until he punched out. However, he's shared plenty of stories of seminary and priesthood. Everyone knew who was gay. Everyone expected that they would not be faithful to God or to their vows. By their own estimates, at least 80% of these men slept around together in seminary, and a similar although slightly smaller number had homosexual relations with other priests and non-clerics (although not minors) during their active priesthood.

The "lavender mafia" didn't believe in celibacy. They didn't encourage anyone else to believe in it. They openly mocked the idea. They encouraged their brothers to disregard their vows.
Wow, thank you for sharing this. I of course knew the rumors and scuttlebut of what was going on in the seminaries, but never so starkly presented.
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Edited for context. The data I have is from a guy who was in seminary in the late 70s and early 80s.
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