Bob Lee said:
We're all being lumped into the same category. The irony is completely lost on the Vatican that actual division is being inserted into the mass in the form of inculturation. We're compartmentalizing our shared culture by inserting our differences into the roman rite. That the reason given for going to one form of the mass and placing such arbitrary restrictions on the extraordinary form, was to eliminate division is confusing to me. My parish has two large communities of English and Spanish speakers. The only place we all met at the same time used to be the TLM. That's almost been eradicated.
Similar at my parish. Large English and Spanish communities. We underwent a "liturgical renewal" over the last few years. We started singing antiphons again, incorporating more Latin, focusing on good and proper liturgical music (chant, organ, theologically sound hymns). We also started having TLMs. I had never felt closer to the Spanish part of the community, we were liturgically aligned as a parish, both in the NO and TLM expressions of the Roman Rite.
We got a new pastor a year ago who has basically undone it all. We're essentially two parishes again. Aztec dancers on Our Lady of Guadalupe's feast day, in the church, with the Eucharist still in the Tabernacle.
Thankfully we still have twice monthly TLMs (on a very limited set of days). We had a very widely attended (700+) TLM on St Nicholas Day in 2021, complete with a post-mass social. We weren't permitted to do it in 2022 because it fell on a Tuesday, and would get in the way of the regularly scheduled Spanish daily mass that has a few dozen attendees on a good day.
So I've seen how both the TLM and an NO that's focused on being faithful to the documents of Vatican II can united a multi-lingual parish, and how the opposite is much more divisive.