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The Shank Ag
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Up until recently, my entire life has been spent in the Methodist Church. However, recent events have led to that no longer being an option for my family.

I, along with my two children, were baptized in the Methodist Church as infants. My wife grew up "mainly" Baptist in east Texas, and was baptized as a teenager there.

In the past 2 weeks, I have visited First Baptist Church in Cleburne and felt very much at home. In fact, should this continue another couple weeks and after a lunch the pastor and I have planned for after spring break, we will probably be joining.


My questions, as I was probably fed a lot of incorrect information growing up in the Methodist Church about the Baptist Church from other members and family:

1. Will I and my children need to be rebaptized? I was always told yes growing up, as my infant sprinkling would not be recognized.

2. Will we be able to take communion in the Baptist Church if we have not been baptized there? I was always told no growing up.


Again, I am very excited about the prospects of this change in denominations and churches, just was wondering about the logistics of it all. These would be questions I would field to the pastor when we have lunch, but I am kind of anxious to know now and he is on Spring Break with his family.
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Communion should not be an issue but baptism by immersion ( believer's baptism and not infant baptism) is required.
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The Shank Ag said:

Up until recently, my entire life has been spent in the Methodist Church. However, recent events have led to that no longer being an option for my family.

I, along with my two children, were baptized in the Methodist Church as infants. My wife grew up "mainly" Baptist in east Texas, and was baptized as a teenager there.

In the past 2 weeks, I have visited First Baptist Church in Cleburne and felt very much at home. In fact, should this continue another couple weeks and after a lunch the pastor and I have planned for after spring break, we will probably be joining.


My questions, as I was probably fed a lot of incorrect information growing up in the Methodist Church about the Baptist Church from other members and family:

1. Will I and my children need to be rebaptized? I was always told yes growing up, as my infant sprinkling would not be recognized.

2. Will we be able to take communion in the Baptist Church if we have not been baptized there? I was always told no growing up.


Again, I am very excited about the prospects of this change in denominations and churches, just was wondering about the logistics of it all. These would be questions I would field to the pastor when we have lunch, but I am kind of anxious to know now and he is on Spring Break with his family.

Depends on the Baptist church. They are all autonomous.
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You most likely to pressured to "rebaptize", but personally I don't think you need to. There will no restriction on communion.

I didn't see anything on their website that mentioned requirements for church membership (as in you call yourself a member of that church, nothing theological about it).
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The practice of infant baptism is a strong argument for the necessity of baptism to receive the remission or forgiveness of sins. Infant baptism had its origin in the belief that all humans, including infants, were tainted by the sin of Adam. As a result, all unbaptized infants who died were lost. This doctrine is often referred to as the doctrine of total hereditary depravity. Since this doctrine holds that all, even infants, are totally depraved because of inherited guilt, it was concluded that infants must be baptized, a practice that was then and since Biblical days accepted as the act based upon which and the time at which sins were remitted and forgiveness received. Obviously, baptism was the only requirement related to salvation that could be expected of an infant.

There is no biblical basis for the doctrine. First, there is no biblical basis for the doctrine of total hereditary depravity. Children have no sin. It was of them that Jesus said, "Truly I say to you, unless you are converted and become like children, you will not enter the kingdom of heaven." Matthew 18:3. Baptism must be preceded by faith. Mark 16:15-16. Baptism must be preceded by repentance. Acts 2:38. Confession is made unto salvation. Romans10:8-11. Since an infant does not have the mental capacity to believe or repent or the verbal capacity to intelligently confess based upon faith, the infant is not a proper subject of scriptural baptism. Since the infant has no sin it is not lost. Since it is not lost it cannot be "found" or saved. It is in a "safe" condition and, should it die, would enjoy eternal bliss in the presence of God.

Based on this I would desire to be baptized according to scripture. Pray you find a place to grow and increase in faith.
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I went Methodist to Baptist.

Rebaptized, you and I would say yes, they'd say you weren't baptized in the first place. I've been double baptized and actually the third generation to be such. My mom and granddad were baptized the second time in a Methodist church, oddly enough.
The only thing that not being immersed kept be from doing was being a member. I was in fellowship, attended church and small group, and was loved by the church. Being baptized allowed me to enter into membership and later leadership.

Every Baptist church I've been in practiced open communion.

Keep in mind that some baptists are reformed. Big issue within the SBC right now. May or maynot be an issue for you.
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And I am praying for you and your family. God will open the right doors and close the wrong ones.
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Pro Sandy said:

I went Methodist to Baptist.

Rebaptized, you and I would say yes, they'd say you weren't baptized in the first place. I've been double baptized and actually the third generation to be such. My mom and granddad were baptized the second time in a Methodist church, oddly enough.
The only thing that not being immersed kept be from doing was being a member. I was in fellowship, attended church and small group, and was loved by the church. Being baptized allowed me to enter into membership and later leadership.

Every Baptist church I've been in practiced open communion.

Keep in mind that some baptists are reformed. Big issue within the SBC right now. May or maynot be an issue for you.


Our Baptist church did not require "re baptizing" but most new members chose full immersion baptism.

We had open communion also.

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oldarmy1 said:

The practice of infant baptism is a strong argument for the necessity of baptism to receive the remission or forgiveness of sins. Infant baptism had its origin in the belief that all humans, including infants, were tainted by the sin of Adam. As a result, all unbaptized infants who died were lost. This doctrine is often referred to as the doctrine of total hereditary depravity. Since this doctrine holds that all, even infants, are totally depraved because of inherited guilt, it was concluded that infants must be baptized, a practice that was then and since Biblical days accepted as the act based upon which and the time at which sins were remitted and forgiveness received. Obviously, baptism was the only requirement related to salvation that could be expected of an infant.

There is no biblical basis for the doctrine. First, there is no biblical basis for the doctrine of total hereditary depravity. Children have no sin. It was of them that Jesus said, "Truly I say to you, unless you are converted and become like children, you will not enter the kingdom of heaven." Matthew 18:3. Baptism must be preceded by faith. Mark 16:15-16. Baptism must be preceded by repentance. Acts 2:38. Confession is made unto salvation. Romans10:8-11. Since an infant does not have the mental capacity to believe or repent or the verbal capacity to intelligently confess based upon faith, the infant is not a proper subject of scriptural baptism. Since the infant has no sin it is not lost. Since it is not lost it cannot be "found" or saved. It is in a "safe" condition and, should it die, would enjoy eternal bliss in the presence of God.

Based on this I would desire to be baptized according to scripture. Pray you find a place to grow and increase in faith.
There is biblical basis and no one taught differently until the 1500s. Infant baptism replaced circumcision of the old testament. It was also done due to original sin. Christs calls children to him in Luke. Whole households were baptized (not excluding children). Original Sin is also biblical...."Therefore as sin came into the world through one man and death through sin, and so death spread to all men because all men sinned" - Luke 5:12
That is unless we believe we are born completely immaculate. Which is not to say that those infants children who are not old enough to discern sin or make a conscious profession of their faith (which is still require late) are not going to heaven through no fault of their own. We are bound by Gods teachings....God is not.
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BluHorseShu said:

oldarmy1 said:

The practice of infant baptism is a strong argument for the necessity of baptism to receive the remission or forgiveness of sins. Infant baptism had its origin in the belief that all humans, including infants, were tainted by the sin of Adam. As a result, all unbaptized infants who died were lost. This doctrine is often referred to as the doctrine of total hereditary depravity. Since this doctrine holds that all, even infants, are totally depraved because of inherited guilt, it was concluded that infants must be baptized, a practice that was then and since Biblical days accepted as the act based upon which and the time at which sins were remitted and forgiveness received. Obviously, baptism was the only requirement related to salvation that could be expected of an infant.

There is no biblical basis for the doctrine. First, there is no biblical basis for the doctrine of total hereditary depravity. Children have no sin. It was of them that Jesus said, "Truly I say to you, unless you are converted and become like children, you will not enter the kingdom of heaven." Matthew 18:3. Baptism must be preceded by faith. Mark 16:15-16. Baptism must be preceded by repentance. Acts 2:38. Confession is made unto salvation. Romans10:8-11. Since an infant does not have the mental capacity to believe or repent or the verbal capacity to intelligently confess based upon faith, the infant is not a proper subject of scriptural baptism. Since the infant has no sin it is not lost. Since it is not lost it cannot be "found" or saved. It is in a "safe" condition and, should it die, would enjoy eternal bliss in the presence of God.

Based on this I would desire to be baptized according to scripture. Pray you find a place to grow and increase in faith.
There is biblical basis and no one taught differently until the 1500s. Infant baptism replaced circumcision of the old testament. It was also done due to original sin. Christs calls children to him in Luke. Whole households were baptized (not excluding children). Original Sin is also biblical...."Therefore as sin came into the world through one man and death through sin, and so death spread to all men because all men sinned" - Luke 5:12
That is unless we believe we are born completely immaculate. Which is not to say that those infants children who are not old enough to discern sin or make a conscious profession of their faith (which is still require late) are not going to heaven through no fault of their own. We are bound by Gods teachings....God is not.
I went Southern Baptist to Catholic

In Catechism classes we also learned that infant Baptism was done because so many children died early long ago.
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Shank, the Baptist churches I've known required it if you want to officially be a member.

"Rebaptizing" didn't pop up until the Anabaptist in the 1500s. It was based around you not being validly baptized the first time because you weren't old enough to be a believer and you have to believe before baptism for it to be valid. As oldarmy said, that doesn't stand historically, which is why most Protestant denominations still baptize infants. It has to do with our original sin nature, which even baptists believed in for most of their history. Interestingly, the total depravity doctrine oldarmy mentioned is Calvinist, so your Methodist church may have had some similar beliefs.

If you believe your baptism as an infant was licit then all of this may present a problem for you presenting yourself for baptism again.
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Which then brings up the "necessity" of baptism, which baptists don't belief in so you wouldn't want to baptize an infant. And round and round we go haha
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ReadytoHarvest has probably the best, most concise, unbiased breakdown of all the denominations. I would highly recommend spending a few hours listening to his videos to get a lay of protestant-land.

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The answers to your questions are going to be specific to that local congregation. "Baptist" has a widerange of meaning. Some churches may restrict communion to members of the church, and church membership is limited to those who have a believer's baptism. Other churches may open communion up to any professing believer. It kind of depends on the congregation. Is this church SBC? Have you read the Baptist Faith and Message?
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Which then brings up the "necessity" of baptism, which baptists don't belief in so you wouldn't want to baptize an infant. And round and round we go haha

The necessity has nothing to do it in a theological sense and just a rule a local congregation imposes to be a member of there particular church...which has no bearing on one being part of Body of Christ.
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Baptist's aren't very liturgical. They see baptism as an act of obedience, and a symbol of salvation. The baptism isn't necessary for salvation, but sometimes the local church will require it for church membership.
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Your infant sprinkling is just as good. You are saved by Jesus. Not by getting dunked.
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//Follow your heart, Jesus is leading! I too,grew up Methodist and later became Southern Baptist. But it's the Methodist doctrine, beliefs and ways that left our family. My wife's origins was Southern Baptist and I trusted her to right the ship with this religious adversity with our sons and I accepting believers baptism by emerson and SBC teachings. It's been about 19 years, my sons are grown (one is a SBC ordained preacher) with kids of their own and we still believe God is in control and that we followed his lead.//just my thoughts.//
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My husband was raised Methodist but joined the Baptist church not long after we were married. As others have stated, Baptist churches are autonomous so each one could be different in their requirements. However, I can give you a general idea of what to expect, particularly if the church you are looking at is Baptist Missions Association, Southern Baptist Convention, or Baptist General Convention.

1. Will I and my children need to be rebaptized? I was always told yes growing up, as my infant sprinkling would not be recognized.

Most likely, yes. This is because the Baptist church adheres to the idea of a "believer's baptism." Infant baptism is more similar to how the Baptist church views a baby dedication whereas a believer's baptism is symbolic of the inner change that comes with accepting Jesus as your savior. You have died to your sin and are buried with Christ (under the water) to be raised to walk in His likeness (pulled out of the water). Then, the water is symbolic of those sins being washed away. Because the Bible says to believe and be baptized, that is the order many Baptist churches request for full membership. However, that said, my husband was not comfortable at first being rebaptized - it is a very personal decision - and the church we were attending and continue to attend was perfectly fine with that. He just wasn't allowed to fully be a member, become a deacon, vote in elections, etc.

2. Will we be able to take communion in the Baptist Church if we have not been baptized there? I was always told no growing up.

Absolutely. If you are a brother or sister in Christ, you are welcome at the table. The only request is that you be fully aware of the symbolism behind the Lord's Supper.
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I learned the answer to these questions after a talk with the pastor early last week.

Last Sunday, I had an immersion Baptism early in the service, and my family joined at the end of the service.

It was an amazing day and one I will cherish forever.
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The Shank Ag said:

I learned the answer to these questions after a talk with the pastor early last week.

Last Sunday, I had an immersion Baptism early in the service, and my family joined at the end of the service.

It was an amazing day and one I will cherish forever.
Great stuff!
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My wife was raised in a Church of Christ. She was fully immersed when baptized. We have been married for many decades. For the first 10 years of our marriage she attended a Baptist church with me. We moved a lot so she worshiped freely in her heart and took communion at each church. One church, Sugar Creek, happily accepted her as a "Watch Care" member. We have now lived in the small town we grew up in for 35 years. We attend the same church we were married in. She desired to join as a full member and was interviewed by the pastor with me in attendance. She was accepted on statement of faith, having already been baptized.

I don't know for sure but believe full immersion baptism would be required to become a full member. I'm pretty sure with have several long time "guests" who are Methodists and have never been Baptized. I'm happy they are there.

I'm speaking for myself only.
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The Shank Ag said:

I learned the answer to these questions after a talk with the pastor early last week.

Last Sunday, I had an immersion Baptism early in the service, and my family joined at the end of the service.

It was an amazing day and one I will cherish forever.


Congratulations Shank! Happy y'all found a home!
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The Shank Ag said:

I learned the answer to these questions after a talk with the pastor early last week.

Last Sunday, I had an immersion Baptism early in the service, and my family joined at the end of the service.

It was an amazing day and one I will cherish forever.


Blessings! I don't find baptism in the baptist church to be a salvation issue but I'm glad you did it and it was a good day for you and your family.

I grew up in a SBC church but now am in a non denominational Reformedish Free Evangelical Church (I completely understand the ridiculousness of that word salad.) I consider my upbringing in the SBC to be a blessing and a curse. I was fortunate to have had a moralistic childhood that absolved me of a lot of guilt from a wanton youth, but I also had a way more legalistic background than necessary.

I've never seen any restrictions on communion other than repentance and consumption under a cleansed heart. I did grow up in a Catholic community and I remember not being able to take communion when I attended mass and that always sat poorly with me.
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c-jags said:

The Shank Ag said:

I learned the answer to these questions after a talk with the pastor early last week.

Last Sunday, I had an immersion Baptism early in the service, and my family joined at the end of the service.

It was an amazing day and one I will cherish forever.


Blessings! I don't find baptism in the baptist church to be a salvation issue but I'm glad you did it and it was a good day for you and your family.

I grew up in a SBC church but now am in a non denominational Reformedish Free Evangelical Church (I completely understand the ridiculousness of that word salad.) I consider my upbringing in the SBC to be a blessing and a curse. I was fortunate to have had a moralistic childhood that absolved me of a lot of guilt from a wanton youth, but I also had a way more legalistic background than necessary.

I've never seen any restrictions on communion other than repentance and consumption under a cleansed heart. I did grow up in a Catholic community and I remember not being able to take communion when I attended mass and that always sat poorly with me.


We have traveled similar roads. The Southern Baptist church I grew up on was less legalistic than most, but I still remember the offering envelopes where you were awarded different percentages for your "works" with a perfect score being 100.

Works included giving your offering, attending SS and church, reading your Bible, witnessing to a friend, etc.

Not bad in and of themselves but still work based.

I have become convinced I can do nothing to earn my salvation except trust the Lord.
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Any thoughts on Saddleback?


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dermdoc said:

The Shank Ag said:

Up until recently, my entire life has been spent in the Methodist Church. However, recent events have led to that no longer being an option for my family.

I, along with my two children, were baptized in the Methodist Church as infants. My wife grew up "mainly" Baptist in east Texas, and was baptized as a teenager there.

In the past 2 weeks, I have visited First Baptist Church in Cleburne and felt very much at home. In fact, should this continue another couple weeks and after a lunch the pastor and I have planned for after spring break, we will probably be joining.


My questions, as I was probably fed a lot of incorrect information growing up in the Methodist Church about the Baptist Church from other members and family:

1. Will I and my children need to be rebaptized? I was always told yes growing up, as my infant sprinkling would not be recognized.

2. Will we be able to take communion in the Baptist Church if we have not been baptized there? I was always told no growing up.


Again, I am very excited about the prospects of this change in denominations and churches, just was wondering about the logistics of it all. These would be questions I would field to the pastor when we have lunch, but I am kind of anxious to know now and he is on Spring Break with his family.

Depends on the Baptist church. They are all autonomous.


Well, Baptist churches used to be autonomous. Until today. The SBC's days of "no creed but the Bible" are over. Now the Baptist Faith and Message is a creed, and if you don't follow it you are "disfellowshipped."
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"no creed but the Bible" is a creed in itself
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AgLiving06 said:

"no creed but the Bible" is a creed in itself
True...but I don't know any Church that states that alone without some addendums....(aka additional parts to the creed). Without the Bible, none of us would have creeds though...so in that sense...you are correct
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AgLaw02 said:

dermdoc said:

The Shank Ag said:

Up until recently, my entire life has been spent in the Methodist Church. However, recent events have led to that no longer being an option for my family.

I, along with my two children, were baptized in the Methodist Church as infants. My wife grew up "mainly" Baptist in east Texas, and was baptized as a teenager there.

In the past 2 weeks, I have visited First Baptist Church in Cleburne and felt very much at home. In fact, should this continue another couple weeks and after a lunch the pastor and I have planned for after spring break, we will probably be joining.


My questions, as I was probably fed a lot of incorrect information growing up in the Methodist Church about the Baptist Church from other members and family:

1. Will I and my children need to be rebaptized? I was always told yes growing up, as my infant sprinkling would not be recognized.

2. Will we be able to take communion in the Baptist Church if we have not been baptized there? I was always told no growing up.


Again, I am very excited about the prospects of this change in denominations and churches, just was wondering about the logistics of it all. These would be questions I would field to the pastor when we have lunch, but I am kind of anxious to know now and he is on Spring Break with his family.

Depends on the Baptist church. They are all autonomous.


Well, Baptist churches used to be autonomous. Until today. The SBC's days of "no creed but the Bible" are over. Now the Baptist Faith and Message is a creed, and if you don't follow it you are "disfellowshipped."


Not in the Baptist church I went to before moving to CS.

I run away from any Baptist churches that makes you sign a paper saying you are bound to not do this or that. And I have been Deacon chair twice.
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AgLiving06 said:

"no creed but the Bible" is a creed in itself
I encourage you to consider what Jesus said to Satan when he was being tempted.
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that makes you sign a paper saying you are bound to not do this or that.

More and more Baptist churches are recognizing the need for meaningful membership. When the secular world tries to say "What's the difference between you and me" having a creed or confession is able to signal to the world what we stand for biblically.

The baseline for creed doesn't have to be something like the 1689 London Confession, but it should be sufficient enough to make clear what are first order, second order, and third order for the purposes of membership.
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Sure. And the SBC identified that a female staff member having the word "pastor" in her title is first order. Pastors covering up abuse, adultery, mishandling money, and spewing hateful rhetoric online are all second or third order issues I guess.
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