cavscout96 said:
PabloSerna said:
Pleased cite the scripture that discusses love between people of the same sex - freely given, freely received, and lived out in a chaste, loving relationship.
you are familiar with the story of Sodom and Gomorrah, yes?
as to the "manner" in which sin is committed, take out "same sex" and replace it with "unmarried," or even "adulterous."
is it OK if I commit any other sin if I do it "lovingly?"
I'm going to answer you seriously, but I am going to assume you have actually read
GN 19 and Lot's account. I have linked it and I challenge anyone here to argue this is anything but gang rape.
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Hear me out - being gay in and of itself is not a sin.
What is sinful is having sex outside of marriage. Because it is self directed and void of love. It seeks pleasure over love. Marriage is defined as (CCC 1662) "
The intimate community of life and love which constitutes the married state has been established by the Creator and endowed by him with its own proper laws. . . . God himself is the author of marriage."
I like to think of this as
marriage par excellence. The highest order. Clearly, before the fall, God made woman for man (
GN 2:22). For each other. God also made us immortal. Then there was the fall. As a consequence of sin, death entered the picture. Not just death, but a fallen nature in need of salvation.
Fast forward to now. There is evidence that being gay or being trans has a biological basis. I happen to know a few people who are gay, lesbian, and trans. What they tell me, is that they have always felt this from an early age. I believe them. I have a number of gay couples as clients and we talk, just like this - because I want to know! At one time, I didn't know and I assumed they made a choice - to be gay - to be trans. Just like I make a choice to wear jeans or put on boots. This is ignorance.
In fact, they have so clearly stated to me that there is NO choice - they feel free when they can finally embrace themselves as gay, lesbian, or trans. This is not some evil decision to destroy the world, but a decision to be a part of it like they feel God has called them to do. Yes - many are very much in tune with God and Jesus.
What they have taught me is that God loves them - gay, lesbian, and trans. They know this and desire greatly to be a part of his Church. To receive the sacraments. To live a chaste life either single or in a committed, loving, and free relationship with another person of the same sex. To raise children. To worship in communion with all of us and to build up the Kingdom of God.
I believe there has to be a way. It may be that the mission by the RCC apostolate
Courage is this way? It may also be a recognition of a union between two people of the same sex living a chaste life under the same roof? It may be something else all together.
I look forward to learning and following the will of God.