3rd and 2 said:
Was at a family dinner tonight at my in-laws. I'm passed the salad dressing and put it on my salad. Salad was rancid. I checked the dressing bottle, salad dressing expired in 2015. I mention this at the table.
Wife and FIL are upset at me that I brought the expired/rancid dressing up. I learn that apparently the MIL has a problem with throwing away expired food and that it upsets her when confronted about this..
Tonight wife tells me I should apologize to MIL tomorrow for bringing up the fact that the dressing was expired and rancid at dinner. By the way I saw that the rancid salad dressing was put back in the fridge and not thrown away.
I'm fuming right now plus feeling a bit wheezy in the stomach. How should a Christian handle this situation? I'm thinking I'll apologize but keep special attention on any food MIL prepares from now on.
Your MIL is mentally ill and cannot help herself or see the problem- she needs to see a therapist who can help her deal with hoarding behavior, maybe even specifically with food. If left unaddressed, this will only get worse as she ages and could land them in the hospital or worse.
This is a fight worth having, they are your family now too, and your responsibility to look out for them when they can't do it for themselves.