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One one hand, I want to ask why someone else telling you what you already know causes you to leave. They are speaking the truth to you (as you admit). Why leave? Why do they factor into it at all?
Imagine being obese and walking into a doctor's office. The obese doctor makes no effort to get to know you or why you are there. Instead he just starts off talking about how your obesity is disgusting and bad for your health. Then he give you some dieting information and sets up a weight loss plan with weekly follow ups. Would you keep going to that doctor? I wouldn't. I would walk right out of a church if the first thing they ever saw and cared about was pointing out my sin and convicting me for it.
People come to church for sanctuary, love, community, and guidance. Lambasting newcomers for their sins doesn't fit any of that. As far as I can tell, the soul-gazing into the hidden sins of others is no longer a common gift. There, I also would bet money that things like gay couples, trans people, and couples out of wedlock that attend church would be routinely singled out for such treatment due to these sins being visible and apparent. Meanwhile the avaricious deacon, sexually predatious associate pastor, the alcoholic Sunday school teacher, and the abusive usher would never seem to get called out.
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