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Beer Baron
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I'm talking about basic equal rights.

Also, what is and isn't a basic equal right has been hotly debated.


Tell you what. Let's take any law that's historically applied to gay people and apply it to Christians instead. I bet we could agree on basic equal rights pretty quickly.
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"Same sex marriage has been illegal in the US for the majority of its existence almost solely in religious grounds with Christian organizations explicitly opposing equal rights for homosexuals."

False.

Same sex marriage was not "legal" because the definition of marriage precludes same sex couples for reasons derived from natural law.

You blame it on Christian religious grounds but that's not why we didn't have gay "marriage."

Every culture in the history of mankind (Christian or not) did not define marriage as anything but between men and women. Again, for obvious reasons.

It wasn't Christian bigotry. It was reason and natural law.

The progressives "won" because they quietly redefined "marriage" to mean simply a formal decree and acknowledgment of professed love between two persons. "We" ceded the definition of marriage with the help of no fault divorce.

Then it really did seem exclusionary - heck, if marriage is simply that than why can't two men be married?

Want more predictions?

1) Gays will start suing churches and will start winning.

2) pedophilia/pedestry will be normalized and some of you, within a decade, if we're still on TexAgs, will be defending it. Because "equality" and "love wins." Also polygamy.

3) Many people who still hold to a sane view of sex and marriage will be marginalized to the edges of society and unable to work without professing adherence with whatever the sexual cause dejur is.
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So I'm a bit outside of the overton window for this discussion probably. I'm totally fine with a sign on someone's door that says "Irish need not apply" Discrimination sucks and it is terrible and I wouldn't give that person my money, but I believe that they have a right to hire/fire/etc whoever they want. Discrimination laws are pretty big all over the country. I was recently on an argument on forum 16 about whether or not hair discrimination is a thing (it is).. do I think it should be illegal? No, its just real sheisty.

I think a lot of people would say that having that sign on the door probably violates that person's basic rights.

I wasn't asking to be snarky. I think Beto also wants to give everyone free housing too because its a basic right. During the Obama administration there were talks about phones being or not being a basic right. Healthcare/health insurance is probably the most commonly debated one.
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I'm in agreement with you on most of that. Discrimination is ****ty, but we've reached a point where the market will probably take care of it for the most part - entirely because of all the progress seamaster and his ilk always rail against. In fact, I'm a big proponent of advertising your discrimination. When Oklahoma was passing their version of the "discriminate all the time" laws that were all the rage awhile back, a state senator put up an amendment requiring businesses exercising this right to advertise with a sign in the window saying so. Oddly enough, people shot that down. Probably because they know it's ****ty, both as a business practice and as part of being a decent human to others.
Beer Baron
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2) pedophilia/pedestry will be normalized and some of you, within a decade, if we're still on TexAgs, will be defending it. Because "equality" and "love wins." Also polygamy.
You've already been saying this for the better part of a decade. Other than the occasional hysterical post from people like you screaming "see! pedophilia's totally going mainstream!" from a badly-sourced site no one's ever heard of, there's no movement toward this like was seen in the gay rights movement.

But while you bring up polygamy, who are you to deny the religious rights of people whose faith requires them to practice it? Why do you hate their freedom of religion?
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"You've already been saying this for the better part of a decade."

Hold up.

I thought you demanded precision of speech at all times? I'd hate for you to be unable to show that I've been saying that a decade and be forced to admit your dishonesty.....

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I mean, I'll gladly take your bet and accept a steak dinner for me and my husband on your tab in 2029 when you're proven wrong again, I just think I already made that bet with someone (maybe notafraid) in like 2014.

But while I've got you here, why can't the polygamists practice their faith? Freedom of religion and all that.
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Here's a TV show featured on "Pink News" which was clearly normalizing pedastry. So I'll take that bet.

https://www.dailywire.com/news/walsh-lgbt-site-celebrates-relationship-between-49-matt-walsh

My debates with Notafraid (if memory serves) never touched on gay "marriage." We we're debating Calvinism vs. Catholicism. Why weren't we debating gay "marriage?" Because those debates were happening way back in the ancient days of 2007-09 or so when the vast majority of Christians, including liberal politicians like Hillary Clinton and Barack Obama, agreed that marriage was defined as a relationship between one man and one woman.

Polygamists? Why can't they marry? Why can't a woman marry a building? You see- you're right. Once the word "marriage" is redefined and reduced to meaning a mere agreement between adults (for now) than sure, women should be able to "marry" horses and Japanese men should be able to "marry" digital avatars.
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You must consume more gay media than I do because I've never heard of Pink News. For the record, I won't defend that now or in 10 years. I suspect at that time the most we'll ever hear of the subject will be pearl-clutching articles such as these, posted by pearl-clutching people such as you.

And still you don't answer the question of why you'd prohibit people from exercising their faith when it requires multiple marriages. Your faith says that's a no-go, but theirs doesn't. Why are you against the freedom of religion?
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If you think recall, my argument against gay "marriage" was very rarely (if at all) a scriptural argument is theological argument.

My argument was based on natural law and what's best for children and healthy families.
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Ah, found it. My bad - we didn't bet over the ridiculous claim that pedophilia would be totally normalized in 10 years, it was the ridiculous claim that straight people would stop marrying each other once gays could marry. And it was your idea apparently, not mine! 15% decline was a bold claim. We're halfway there, so there's still time I suppose, but I still maintain that my husband and I should get our steaks now since states that have had gay marriage for a long time haven't seen that kind of decline yet.

https://texags.com/forums/15/topics/2590392/1
Beer Baron
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Seamaster said:

If you think recall, my argument against gay "marriage" was very rarely (if at all) a scriptural argument is theological argument.

My argument was based on natural law and what's best for children and healthy families.
That's fine, but you don't get to pretend to be for the freedom of religion. You're only for the freedom of certain ones, i.e. yours.
kurt vonnegut
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" So what is next? Should American Christians then accept any treatment as "well, I guess it is our turn?"
Should American Christians not point out that these things are wrong?"

Absolutely not. But, I think American Christians should be willing to look at the issue with historical perspective. To not understand the current backlash is to not be willing to empathasize with anyone who has felt disenfranchised.

The backlash is troubling. Those that pretend like the backlash came out of no where aren't any better.
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swimmerbabe11 said:

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I'm talking about basic equal rights.

Also, what is and isn't a basic equal right has been hotly debated.


That's fine. Let's go with equal application of rights then. We can discuss the 'fairness' of American slavery of Africans without needing to first establish whether human beings have the right to not be slaves. Right?
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Beer Baron
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Best I can tell, you refuse to see the dishonesty because you share his opinions.
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Average Guy said:

kurt vonnegut said:

Seamaster said:

"Has the religious right ever crossed the line?"

You tell us. Prohibition maybe?

Blue laws which kind of annoy me (if I need wine for Sunday lunch and forgot to get some Saturday.)

You could reach back into history and there was some kind of crazy stuff going on in the name of Christianity in the Middle Ages obviously.

As to my not giving any ground on the definition of the word "marriage." I stand by that 100%. I was asked at work recently what I thought about gay marriage by a superior. He wasn't fishing, I think he just was curious because i am from the south and a professed Christian.

I said exactly what I've said here: marriage is one man and one women. Period. Regardless of what a government says.




Let's go with an easy one. Same sex marriage has been illegal in the US for the majority of its existence almost solely in religious grounds with Christian organizations explicitly opposing equal rights for homosexuals. I'm not talking about "marriage" as the church sees it. I'm talking about basic equal rights. How do you justify that?

I saw a political cartoon years ago with two windows - I'm sure many will recall it or something similar. The first window has a Christian smashing an atheist over the head with a Crucifix and verbally assaulting him. The second window has the atheist grabbing the cross and about to break it over his knee with the Christian yelling he's being oppressed. I'm pretty sure you would see that comic and say "Poor Christian. That atheist stole from him and is about to destroy his property."

I'll spell out the obvious analogy so it's not misunderstood. Christians have treated gays poorly throughout most of history. Not just poorly, despicably. Now we have a couple lawsuits about Christian bakers and a political candidate threatening tax exemption removal and you act like the Gay-Apocalypse is here. You think Christians are oppressed here? *****, you don't know what real oppression is
Christians shouldn't be concerned when their businesses get targeted specifically to make them compromise out they sit them down? And when they work for an employer they are more and more being told they have to affirm things which are counter to their beliefs? When deep pocketed progressives and presidential candidates say things on the subject that can only be interpreted as meaning that Christian's are going top be pushed until they either compromise or are drive out of society?

(it doesn't matter that Beto has no chance to win the election, it only matters that he senses, probably correctly, that it will score him points with the opinion makers)

I've said multiple times that it is concerning. Who are you arguing to?
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Seamaster said:

Craignuaght.

What now? You're fact-checking me? Trying to play "gotch?"

Firstly, Beer Baron admits above that we've talked about this before.

Secondly, the search function on my phone is laborious and annoying.

Thirdly, however, I found two examples. There are more, if memory serves.

https://texags.com/forums/15/topics/2547016/replies


https://texags.com/forums/15/topics/2473353/replies/39263319#39263319

Calm down Seamaster.

You made the claim that "this board" - whoever that's supposed to be - promises something would never happen.

I didn't remember that happening so I asked you to show me. You don't show me. I asked you again. You got upset and strangely accused me acting in bad faith by playing gotcha.

Then you post two links that don't show what you claimed. Unless I am missing something, nobody in those threads made the promise that no one will ever sue a church over its refusal to perform a same sex wedding. They're mostly about public accommodation laws and you arguing that there are no gay animals. This isn't the first time you've made this claim about gays suing churches and the "general you" saying it will never happen, and for reasons I don't understand, you keep making it yet get upset when asked to show anyone ever making such a promise.

If you find such a promise, I'd be glad to say that I think that person or persons is wrong, especially if I did so as I genuinely want to correct bad reasoning on my part. I'd be interested to see how the arguments of the liberals here have changed as this issue has moved forward. But unless you can find it, forgive me for not taking your word for it.
kurt vonnegut
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Seamaster said:

"Same sex marriage has been illegal in the US for the majority of its existence almost solely in religious grounds with Christian organizations explicitly opposing equal rights for homosexuals."

False.

Same sex marriage was not "legal" because the definition of marriage precludes same sex couples for reasons derived from natural law.

You blame it on Christian religious grounds but that's not why we didn't have gay "marriage."

Every culture in the history of mankind (Christian or not) did not define marriage as anything but between men and women. Again, for obvious reasons.

It wasn't Christian bigotry. It was reason and natural law.

The progressives "won" because they quietly redefined "marriage" to mean simply a formal decree and acknowledgment of professed love between two persons. "We" ceded the definition of marriage with the help of no fault divorce.

Then it really did seem exclusionary - heck, if marriage is simply that than why can't two men be married?
Same sex marriage was not 'legal' because those that had authority to control the definition of 'marriage' in legal terms did so in religious terms.

Yes, there are obvious reasons for the nuclear (heterosexual) family being a cornerstone of all cultures - and those are good reasons. But it takes nothing from heterosexual marriage to permit homosexuals to have legal rights associated with marriage. Those rights were traditionally withheld out of bigotry - pure and simple. Pointing out that other cultures and religions did the same thing isn't a defense.

To suggest that the fight for better treatment for homosexuals is (was) not one against traditional religious morality is insane. There are no good legal secular arguments for sodomy laws. There are no good legal secular arguments against gay 'marriage / civil union'. The ONLY argument is religious and cultural intolerance.

Why in God's name do you care how the government defines 'marriage'? I thought you conservatives wanted government out of our lives? The progressives won because there is no reasonable argument against allowing gay marriage that is not religious.

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Want more predictions?

1) Gays will start suing churches and will start winning.

2) pedophilia/pedestry will be normalized and some of you, within a decade, if we're still on TexAgs, will be defending it. Because "equality" and "love wins." Also polygamy.

3) Many people who still hold to a sane view of sex and marriage will be marginalized to the edges of society and unable to work without professing adherence with whatever the sexual cause dejur is.

1) Maybe. And that will be wrong.

2) This is a huge leap. There is literally no one defending pedophilia - even in the extreme left wing. If pedophilia is normalized anywhere, its within the Catholic Church. What secular argument can you provide against polygamy?

3) More fear tactics. You should have been a politician. You have all the concern and empathy in the world for people like you and zero for anyone not like you. They are different and must be feared. Right?
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3) Many people who still hold to a sane view of sex and marriage will be marginalized to the edges of society and unable to work without professing adherence with whatever the sexual cause dejur is.
This is my favorite prediction of his I think. It's essentially "I'm terrified that Christians will someday be treated the exact way gays have been treated forever." He recognizes marginalization and forced conformity as a bad thing, yet longs for the days when we were marginalized and forced to conform.
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Beer Baron said:

Ah, found it. My bad - we didn't bet over the ridiculous claim that pedophilia would be totally normalized in 10 years, it was the ridiculous claim that straight people would stop marrying each other once gays could marry. And it was your idea apparently, not mine! 15% decline was a bold claim. We're halfway there, so there's still time I suppose, but I still maintain that my husband and I should get our steaks now since states that have had gay marriage for a long time haven't seen that kind of decline yet.

https://texags.com/forums/15/topics/2590392/1
It would be hard to see it as causative, but secularism results in a lower rate of marriage. Europe has seen something like a 50% decline since the 60s. I think secularism and the modern view of marriage are certainly intertwined.
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Beer Baron said:


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3) Many people who still hold to a sane view of sex and marriage will be marginalized to the edges of society and unable to work without professing adherence with whatever the sexual cause dejur is.
This is my favorite prediction of his I think. It's essentially "I'm terrified that Christians will someday be treated the exact way gays have been treated forever." He recognizes marginalization and forced conformity as a bad thing, yet longs for the days when we were marginalized and forced to conform.

This is a bit disingenuous. Without taking either side in the current debate, the only way you can make a blanket statement that marginalization and force conformity are bad is to presume a framework where there are no objectively bad beliefs.

I doubt you would oppose societal marginalization of people with racist or bigoted views of others. You two are implying the same thing, which is essentially that society has the right to ostracize people who don't conform to whatever social norms society deems necessary for peaceful or beneficial coexistence. And you're also saying you want to be "in" because it is no fun being "out".

In other words, your response isn't a response to his point, which is very simply that the line for "in" and "out" is moving and has moved. You're not saying this is good or bad, and it should continue, just that you're glad to be "in".
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https://www.theamericanconservative.com/dreher/heteronormativity-smashers-elly-barnes/
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It would be hard to see it as causative, but secularism results in a lower rate of marriage. Europe has seen something like a 50% decline since the 60s. I think secularism and the modern view of marriage are certainly intertwined.

I don't disagree. Women having more autonomy, education, etc also has a lot to do with it.
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This is a bit disingenuous. Without taking either side in the current debate, the only way you can make a blanket statement that marginalization and force conformity are bad is to presume a framework where there are no objectively bad beliefs.
Huh? I think I can make a blanket statement that marginalization of black people in the form of slavery or Jim Crow is bad, and that forced conformity to those racial roles is bad while saying that racism is an objectively bad belief. The rest of your post must've went right over my head because I legitimately don't understand it.
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Huh? I think I can make a blanket statement that marginalization of black people in the form of slavery or Jim Crow is bad, and that forced conformity to those racial roles is bad while saying that racism is an objectively bad belief. The rest of your post must've went right over my head because I legitimately don't understand it.
My point is, the reason its bad to marginalize black people is because race-based chattel slavery is bad. And by extension, marginalizing those who would practice it is not bad.

So marginalizing people is only bad or good based on the reason. It's always unpleasant for those marginalized. You're simply saying "he's feeling marginalized but he wants others to be marginalized". That's not an argument. The argument is - "he's feeling marginalized and that is good because...." and "I was marginalized and that is bad because..."

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But I don't think it's good that he feels marginalized. I don't think he is being marginalized or has been, but if that were the case, I wouldn't think that's a good thing. Like I said earlier, swap out Christians for gays in any scenario and it would be just as wrong to treat them that way as we've been treated. Business won't serve Christians? Bad. Christians can't marry other Christians? Bad. Christians can't serve openly in the military? Bad. Christians have to hide their religion from their employer/landlord/family? Bad, bad, bad. Christian gatherings get raided and people get thrown in jail for doing Christian things together secretly? Bad. Having to have secret places to have secret Christian gatherings in the first place? Bad.

My point was that he seems to think we're heading for a future where Christians have to worry about this kind of thing, and it's lost on him that we have already actually had to deal with all of them. He laments the social progress that has led to us being less burdened by these situations while simultaneously fearing the same treatment for himself. I think that's worth pointing out.
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Beer Baron said:

But I don't think it's good that he feels marginalized. I don't think he is being marginalized or has been, but if that were the case, I wouldn't think that's a good thing. Like I said earlier, swap out Christians for gays in any scenario and it would be just as wrong to treat them that way as we've been treated. Business won't serve Christians? Bad. Christians can't marry other Christians? Bad. Christians can't serve openly in the military? Bad. Christians have to hide their religion from their employer/landlord/family? Bad, bad, bad. Christian gatherings get raided and people get thrown in jail for doing Christian things together secretly? Bad. Having to have secret places to have secret Christian gatherings in the first place? Bad.

My point was that he seems to think we're heading for a future where Christians have to worry about this kind of thing, and it's lost on him that we have already actually had to deal with all of them. He laments the social progress that has led to us being less burdened by these situations while simultaneously fearing the same treatment for himself. I think that's worth pointing out.
I don't agree at all. To demonstrate, swap out Christians for satanists, or racists. Or Nazis. Or I don't know, murderers or rapists.

Society absolutely has the right and perhaps even the responsibility to dictate what is acceptable behavior for its own benefit. The way it does that are some of the things you describe.

The moral judgment isn't that people are marginalized, it is the justice of that marginalization. It may be that the marginalization of homosexuals in the past was wrong; it may be that the marginalization of the Christians in the future may be wrong. But those aren't givens.

I don't think he considers "social progress" to be a good thing, and if I were to hazard a guess, his position probably entails that the behavior which is being mainstreamed today is harmful for society and therefore should be discouraged - what you call marginalization.
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Ok I see your point. I guess I just don't think gays or Christians deserve ****ty treatment from society at large. Call me crazy.
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Beer Baron said:

Ok I see your point. I guess I just don't think gays or Christians deserve ****ty treatment from society at large. Call me crazy.
I agree with both.
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Then I don't see why you totally disagree with my earlier post. That was the point I was trying to make.
 
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