So I know it's an old movie but I had not seen it up till last year. Since then, as it's been on Starz, I've watched it like 3 or 4 times while it's on when working from home.
I find it to be very watchable, I think because I can relate to several characters with people I know. I mostly enjoy the entire movie and the fact that Adam's character chooses to stay with his wife really doesn't bother me as it does some. What absolutely kills the movie ending for me is the mom's decision to take her daughter out of the school and not pursue the scholarship because she doesn't want her daughter to become fully assimilated and to lose her culture. The mom was made out to be a virtuous character because she made made sure her daughter would be "like her".
I'm sorry but that just seems insanely selfish and close minded. Imagine if it were a white american woman living with her daughter in a foreign culture like Africa or India and out of fear of her daughter assimilating to the African or Indian culture completely and not being more "American" she pulls her daughter out of school there where she has been given an opportunity to go to a great college for free. That movie would be labeled racist or culturalist, as it should be.
Sorry but I had to vent.
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