Let me share a little story with you Ags.
When I was about 17 my twin sister got pregnant. Before any of you children start, this was with a guy she had dated for 5 years and planned to marry that following summer after we graduated. It was not some random act of deviancy. However, she decided that having a baby was the right thing to do because she "had so much to look forward to". Looking back my sister made another decision that literally changed the lives of several people. To this day I admire her for it. She came out and informed our parents that she had decided to terminate the pregnancy. At this moment my mother broke down crying and my father just had the most ghostly looking face you could imagine. She cried so deeply that we knew there was something else then her just being worried or upset. She then explained to us that when she was 19 she found herself pregnant with a boy she had only known for a week. They decided that they would seek an abortion and he would help pay for it. But before the procedure could be done she backed out at the last minute. She told us this had happened 17 years before. That's right, she wanted to "terminate" us. But she didn't and that boy she had known for 5 days turned out to be a wonderful father to us, and husband to my mother. Eventually they both graduated from college and gave me and my sister a wonderful upbringing.
Please, think about this next time you post.
When I was about 17 my twin sister got pregnant. Before any of you children start, this was with a guy she had dated for 5 years and planned to marry that following summer after we graduated. It was not some random act of deviancy. However, she decided that having a baby was the right thing to do because she "had so much to look forward to". Looking back my sister made another decision that literally changed the lives of several people. To this day I admire her for it. She came out and informed our parents that she had decided to terminate the pregnancy. At this moment my mother broke down crying and my father just had the most ghostly looking face you could imagine. She cried so deeply that we knew there was something else then her just being worried or upset. She then explained to us that when she was 19 she found herself pregnant with a boy she had only known for a week. They decided that they would seek an abortion and he would help pay for it. But before the procedure could be done she backed out at the last minute. She told us this had happened 17 years before. That's right, she wanted to "terminate" us. But she didn't and that boy she had known for 5 days turned out to be a wonderful father to us, and husband to my mother. Eventually they both graduated from college and gave me and my sister a wonderful upbringing.
Please, think about this next time you post.