People.

Anyone who knows me knows I am the least shallow person around.

This fella kept a bottle of Lubriderm by the bed and would moisturize his hands before retiring at night. They were very soft, but I prefer a rugged guy to "hand model" types. I just thought it was the most flaming thing I had ever seen. later on in life, he bought a diesel Jetta and consulted me on paint colors for his sun porch. you make the call.

He did subscribe to national review magazine while in college, but I think it was a "beard."

Is this going to end with a mangina?!

Just drink more water.

I was watching Room Raiders, college edition, and the girl found a big bottle of lotion next to the computers of 2 of the three guys.

I don't know any straight guys that don't have hand lotion. Of course, it's probably not for moisturizing their hands.

How is he flaming if he is sleeping with you?

Are we so small minded that we have to label what is acceptable behaviour for a guy not to be gay. And if he does something that we don't find acceptable then he is gay. And this has nothing really to do on his sexual preference. I was always taught that if Steve wants to sleep with Bob, that makes him gay. Nothing else.

Are we so homophobic that if suddenly a guy buys hand cream he must also change his sexual preference? WTF? And really who cares. This obession with gayness is really gay.

Take care of yourself, enjoy life and let it go.

If you are a guy and like lofa mits, fine. If you like candles, cats, bath salts, hand lotion, Jettas, silk sheets, and interiour decorating cool. I guss you will just have to find a woman that is not so closed minded that she can appreciate all of your gifts and talents and manliness and not be caught up in all things she percieves as gay. I mean you are trying to get into her pants anyway. What is she worried about?

isn't there some saying about protesting too much?

http://www.bobanddan.net/ViewPageDetails.cfm?GeneralPageID=327


Trust the gay or not gay page at BobandDan.net

Now that is funnny. ( Proctor )

I guess I'll have to ask my wife.

And after that I should get some general consensus fromt he public.

Lord knows I should always ask what the general public thinks and live my life according to their standards and beliefs.

[This message has been edited by whoop91 (edited 2/9/2005 3:06p).]

I didn't *sleep* with him. I never said that.

If you must know, I got drunk at a football game and he carried me back to his place and he put me to bed. I woke up alone in a strange house. I stayed the night but nothing happened because of my impaired state.

ok. Well the fact that he didn't try to get into your pants makes him gay. hth.

If you want to know if the guy is gay ask him. If your concerned he doesn't want to sleep with you because he has hand lotion instead, offer to put it on for him. You should find out real quick if he is gay or not.