Duckhook said:He Who Shall Be Unnamed said:ToddyHill said:
My retirement was a hard stop at 66 years and 6 months. Had I gone a day longer, I could not get 18 months of COBRA for my wife, who is five years younger. While I enjoyed my job, and was working from home, I had to call it quits.
Three years later…I just can't believe the awesomeness of retirement. I'm not in bed by 10 p.m., I don't wake up at 5 a.m., and every day is a Saturday. Very crazy, but I now love Mondays.
This could all end tomorrow…and my wife and I recognize that. To that extent, we just bought two burial plots in an old country cemetery 2 miles from our home.
If I had one suggestion to those 20 years younger than me…delay gratification and save, save, save. It will pay off in the long run.
With all of that saving, did you have a hard time turning off the switch to start spending?
I wonder how I will feel about spending money when I am not making it. I definitely live below my means, as I think everyone should, but it's easier to rationalize spending when more is coming in. Once the spigot turns off, I'm not sure how I will feel about it.
This is a real thing. I had 3 buddies retire 12 - 18 months before me and we all spent a lot of time talking to each other about retirement. This was one of the big topics.
You have to be comfortable enough with your retirement finances to not think you're going to run out of money if you spend more than you take in. And you'll spend less as you age. I read a book that put it like this: the first 5 - 8 years is the Go-Go Zone. You're still young and healthy enough to travel and do pretty much what you want to do. The next 5 - 8 years is the Slow-Go Zone. Still some travel and doing things, but not as much. You'll spend less money here. The next X number of years is the No-Go Zone. Pretty much hanging around the house. Spend way less money here, aside from Healthcare issues.
I've been retired 5 months now and I am more aware of what I spend on things. I'm still a member of a golf club, still go out to eat, my wife and I have taken trips, so I haven't really changed my lifestyle yet. But I am more money-aware than when I had a regular paycheck coming in.
I feel as if I am going to spend way more retired than I do now that I am working, and I think that will be the case. I put money down on a vacation place (preconstruction), so there will be a lot going out to get it furnished, up and running, etc. I want an upgrade in my lifestyle when I retire, not a downgrade or even steady state. But I am so looking forward to reaching the conclusion it's time to pull the trigger and retake my life.



