The first and most important rule you must understand:
SO as long as you never become her friend you will have a chance at sleeping with her. If she hates you, that is ok. Love and lust are just the other sides of the hate and disgust coins.
One of my favorite ploys in college was to get a chick mad at me so much that she would want to sleep with me. I used this to much success and happiness.
Look at it as an annuity.
The NPV of maintaining the status quo with a guy she hates is 0. But the NPV for a friend is very high.
Conversly the NPV of that same relationship after taking a chance and hooking up with said person is roughly inversed.
The potential NFV for a dating a friend is 0, since you will break up 99.9999% of the time. However, the NFV for hooking up with someone you hate is very high relative to the NPV of 0.
In a nut shell, if you become her friend she has everything to lose by dating you and nothing to gain. But if you aren't her friend she has nothing to lose but everything to gain.
Ladies before you get all huffy and puffy, think about it for a second. Have you ever hooked up with some guy that you said "was an ass" or "I could never date some one like him"
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women view men in one of two catagories:
Those that are friends and they will never sleep with
and
those that are not.
SO as long as you never become her friend you will have a chance at sleeping with her. If she hates you, that is ok. Love and lust are just the other sides of the hate and disgust coins.
One of my favorite ploys in college was to get a chick mad at me so much that she would want to sleep with me. I used this to much success and happiness.
Look at it as an annuity.
The NPV of maintaining the status quo with a guy she hates is 0. But the NPV for a friend is very high.
Conversly the NPV of that same relationship after taking a chance and hooking up with said person is roughly inversed.
The potential NFV for a dating a friend is 0, since you will break up 99.9999% of the time. However, the NFV for hooking up with someone you hate is very high relative to the NPV of 0.
In a nut shell, if you become her friend she has everything to lose by dating you and nothing to gain. But if you aren't her friend she has nothing to lose but everything to gain.
Ladies before you get all huffy and puffy, think about it for a second. Have you ever hooked up with some guy that you said "was an ass" or "I could never date some one like him"