Aquin said:
Old guy here. Never own anything that you are not permanently living in.
I don't care if it is weekend condo at the beach, mountain cabin or a place in the country.
Unless it is just for ego, rent what you want, when you want and for how long you want it.
My ego is not tied up in our Condo, my quality of life is. We spend north of 50/nights a year so we wouldn't have near the coast time I do now if we were renting. It was also a godsend during Covid as we could rotate locations during the shut down.
We go down having to pack little more than a light duffle, sleep in our own beds, kids bring their friends, & I don't have to deal with the hassle of trailering a boat so it even gets me on the water more often. Some time down the road, we'll retire and use it even more plus have a place for our kids and hopefully grandkids to visit one day.
Finally, our property value has increased at a rate that exceeds our annual spend so it has been a better place to put our money than the bank or the market.