unless the woman has ten kids, I see no need for a maid. Even then, the kids could help so no I do not think a SAHM needs a maid.

Isn't a SAHM who spends her time doing 'charity' work while maids take care of her business just basically a wannabe candidate for the Real Housewives of Slootville or wherever?

who has time to clean the house or drop the kids off at school with all the tennis lessons and drinking wine at noon? besides, cleaning the house is hard with silicon enhanced breasts

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You mean like a Surgery nurse who stitches up the patient for the Dr so he can make his tee time?

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Just weld that skin back together!

Depends what they do with their lives. If they have no hobbies, or no interests, then what are they doing? Are they the Country Club types? My dad worked in the country club business in DFW when I was younger. Those women cheat on their husbands like crazy because they are so vapid, they have no internal pride in anything other than material desires.

It is all really a case by case basis, in which case the man should be wise enough to know the intentions and desires of the woman he married.

I have a coworker whose wife is a SAHM. Not only does she have a maid twice a week but she also sends her kids to daycare every day until 5:00 pm because she needs "time to herself". My coworker is expected to take the kids to daycare each morning because she can't possibly be expected to get ready that early. On too of all that, she is a pudgy pig of a women and constantly complains about everything. Her job is Facebook.

.....and away we go

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couldn't share my life with someone like that.

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I have a coworker whose wife is a SAHM. Not only does she have a maid twice a week but she also sends her kids to daycare every day until 5:00 pm because she needs "time to herself". My coworker is expected to take the kids to daycare each morning because she can't possibly be expected to get ready that early. On too of all that, she is a pudgy pig of a women and constantly complains about everything. Her job is Facebook.

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I'm friends with about six of her clones on FB.

How is paying a maid worse than paying strangers to raise your children?

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I think that's moot ac.

If my future wife is a SAHM and doesn't have time to clean I will begin to wonder WTF she is doing all day. Charity work does not take that much time. If she says she is carpooling to soccer practice then I will know she is lying because my kids won't play soccer.

I will not let her turn into Peg Bundy and sit on her worthless ass all day

what MNG said. Also, LOL @ white people problems.

My wife is a SAHM, but also takes some college classes. I keep telling her to get a maid, but she refuses to do so.

Gives her more time to volunteer at the school/church, carpool to soccer, go to the gym to stay in shape, grocery shop, make the sammiches...
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or to spend more time with pedro, the pool boy.

Why do some people care so much about this? How does this affect your life?

Grg, it's Texags. You get used to it.

Lazy rich people

the thought that other people can live a good life without doing any work pisses off people who have a decent life working their tails off.

in other words:

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if you can afford it then why not, gives her more time to do what she wants to and be happy. happy woman means you dont have to get rid of half your stuff...

and ugh, i caught the gray's.

I know of a couple of SAHM on my street that have maids AND nannies.

Of course they need a maid. Can't clean the whole house if you have to stay in the kitchen.

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I have a coworker whose wife is a SAHM. Not only does she have a maid twice a week but she also sends her kids to daycare every day until 5:00 pm because she needs "time to herself". My coworker is expected to take the kids to daycare each morning because she can't possibly be expected to get ready that early. On too of all that, she is a pudgy pig of a women and constantly complains about everything. Her job is Facebook.

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I'm friends with about six of her clones on FB.

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thats terrible. My mom was a SAHM but she did it all.