Can give you some recs, Perdido Key heavy, less crowded/commercialized:
Food with kids - Islander Food Shack, Deep Blue Seafood Truck, Jamie's Seafood Shack - all good food, outdoor seating, bring a windbreaker this week. Lose the kids, Perdido Key Breakfast Club for brunch.
Perdido Bay Seafood - fresh fish market with outstanding selection of take home items.
Gallon of ice cream, cut & bake cookies and can of whipped cream - dessert for the kids for a week
Activities - Teach kids letters and numbers playing Bingo @ Florabama 1-4 pm weekdays, adult humor over their heads, slug 2 bushwhackers and kids complaining won't bother you.
Sailaway Charters - ecotour in OBA, perfect for elementary age kids and even adults, take 2 hour cruise
Big Lagoon State Park and Johnson Beach to getaway from crowds
Naval Museum only allowing DOD cardholders
Orange Beach has public playground on Canal Road just down from Doc's
Perdido Key Kids Park - on the way to NAS, blue angel themed stuff
Alabama Gulf Coast Zoo in GS
Tiki Golf, formerly Zooland - cheap for young kids and shady
Company that rents floating tiki huts with captain that cruises around back bay, don't know website, just seen them on occasion.
Blue Angels just buzzed the beach at 2:15 pm...back home for 2022!
Hope that helps, let me know if need more info outside the norm