Mixed emotions on this one.
Rudder deserves one, IMO. Hell, if MacArthur got one for fleeing the Philippines and leaving General Moore '08 in charge, Rudder deserves a dozen.
However, read
The Fool Lieutenant; a Personal Account of D-Day and WWII.
That crazy SOB was at Pointe Du Hoc with Rudder, then later single-handily captured a German Garrison of 800, armed with nothing more than a pistol, a hand grenade, and gonads the size of basketballs.
It's obvious from the book that he admired Rudder, thought he was the greatest officer ever.
Edlin was nominated for a MOH for the capture. Rudder called Edlin in and told him about it. He asked Edlin if he wanted it. Edlin said sure. Rudder told him that no other Ranger had a MOH. The clear implication was that no Ranger SHOULD have one. Faced with Rudder's opinion, and the fact that he would be yanked off the line and sent stateside if he received the MOH, Edlin declined.
Having read that passage, I believe Rudder would not have wanted the MOH.
Perhaps if he could have received one as a stand-in for all the men under him, maybe he would have taken it, I don't know.