Having had a 2L version of that motor in my old RSX, don't worry about an exhaust, the stock unit on those engines isn't the bottleneck until you talk about forced induction. Intake will open up alot on the K24 engine, but only if you get an actual cold air that pulls air from outside the engine bay. Open element intakes that draw from inside the engine bay do nothing but sound louder than stock. The reflashes and programmable ECU's are handled by a company called Hondata, and they are awesome. A reflash is good if you don't plan to go too crazy, but once you start needing to be tuned, they have a programmable ECU that you can tune on any laptop from inside the car. They also use your stock ECU. info here
http://www.hondata.com/reflash_tsx.htmlMy order of modifications would be:
Cold air intake, race header (if you are ok with eliminating the cat), reflash ecu, suspension (swaybars or full coilovers), supercharger (would need to upgrade to programmable ECU), exhaust.
I had a supercharger on my RSX and it was an absolute blast to drive. The motor can stand up to an incredible amount of stress. I had friends that got over 400whp out of the motor in a daily driver, and never had any reliability issues. I was about 315whp with a 9000rpm redline. You just need the right tune.
[This message has been edited by RyanC (edited 2/15/2011 12:12p).]