AggieBaker09 said:
Look at Woodforest. It is just north of the Woodlands in "new/east" Magnolia/Conroe. A lot of new construction, mostly with families with young kids. There are a lot of neighborhoods in Woodforest and it surrounds a golf course. It is outside of The Woodlands but close enough to enjoy the amenities.
Just an FYI...Woodforest is split between Conroe ISD and Montgomery ISD. It sounded in previous posts like the OP wants Montgomery schools, so just be sure you're aware. With that said, I really like the Woodforest development, and think it's a good option especially now that 2978 has been widened. The intersection of 2978 and 1488 is still kind of a mess (or at least it was the last time I was up there), but I imagine that will be improved in the near future, too.
Also, if you're not dead-set on Montgomery Co, Creekside (which is technically part of The Woodlands but is in Harris Co) meets all of your criteria except for the golf course. There is a golf course in Creekside, but it's gated off separately from the rest of the development, the homes are all $1 million+, and I think there was some flooding in there during Harvey.
Creekside is zoned to Tomball ISD, and the schools are much smaller than The Woodlands schools. There is very much a community feel (all of the houses are within walking distance to the elem schools and most are within walking distance to the jr high) with tons of families, walking/biking trails, and parks.