if you find yourself up against IUI or IVF and have moral reservations, i'd highly recommend a consult with one of Dr. Hilgers practitioners.
http://www.popepaulvi.com/he's based out of Nebraska but is training specialists to set up shop in Houston.
His logic: when IVF was invented, everyone in medicine figured, why continue to figure out why these women are having trouble, when we can do IVF. he continued on the "why" route. his methodology sort of "chases the rabbit". example: if youve got PCOS, why - hormones are out of whack. why are the hormones out of whack - the thyroid is out of whack. why's the thyroid out of whack... and so on. then he treats the conditions working back towards proper womanly function. its pretty logical, just not as "easy".
if youre interested in more info, shoot me an email (in profile). full disclosure - it hasnt worked for us yet, but we've also learned that any amount of IVF wouldnt have either...
best of luck to yall -