No recommendations, but good luck to you. Sounds like it sucks.

JBLHAG03 said:

---

I got slaughtered in my divorce:

On child custody, state will follow standard schedule (dad on Thursday and every other weekend) unless there is a safety issue or both parents can agree on a modification. If mother wants standard schedule and they are a fit parent, minimal chance of getting that changed,

Best of luck.

---

Depending on county and court, this is not always the case anymore. I got "primary" custody of all three of my kids and my ex-wife got thursdays and every other weekend. We had a fair judge that heard the evidence and determined that I was the more stable parent and would be the better option for our kids. It is not impossible for the dad to get a fair resolution

OldAg92 said:

---

Jessica Janicek at Koons Fuller in Southlake. She is outstanding.

---

Fyi Koons Fuller has a reputation for charging extremely excessive and unnecessary legal fees. And honestly, haven't been impressed.

Gigem_94 said:

---

OldAg92 said:

---

Jessica Janicek at Koons Fuller in Southlake. She is outstanding.

---

Fyi Koons Fuller has a reputation for charging extremely excessive and unnecessary legal fees. And honestly, haven't been impressed.

---

They didn't charge me excessive or unnecessary fees and did a great job on my divorce. And I'm a lawyer as well and was a huge pain in the ass to deal with.

Gigem_94 said:

---

OldAg92 said:

---

Jessica Janicek at Koons Fuller in Southlake. She is outstanding.

---

Fyi Koons Fuller has a reputation for charging extremely excessive and unnecessary legal fees. And honestly, haven't been impressed.

---

My ex used Koons Fuller. Somehow they managed to have three attorneys on a case with no child custody. Somehow they never talked to each other so everything was repeated over and over which meant more billings. They were thoroughly unethical and I can explain that more offline. But a few examples: they had my earnings in escrow and were denying requests for me to pay my childrens college funds and my property taxes. They forced me to sell a Roth IRA to pay for excessive legal fees because my wife couldn't pay - - mandating that it came from my Roth which is actually the most painful fund to liquidate. It was just stupidity after stupidity. But didn't they help my ex get the maximum? LOL, they were incompetent and had some MASSIVE mis-steps. BUt they racked up an amazing bill. Thats for sure. The perfect combination of expensive and arrogance and incompetence.

I was avoid them at all COSTS, pun intended. It's well known in the industry that they just rack up fees - - and that was my experience.

Sounds like you need to at least consult with Kons and fuller so your wife does not.

Objective Aggie said:

---

Gigem_94 said:

---

OldAg92 said:

---

Jessica Janicek at Koons Fuller in Southlake. She is outstanding.

---

Fyi Koons Fuller has a reputation for charging extremely excessive and unnecessary legal fees. And honestly, haven't been impressed.

---

My ex used Koons Fuller. Somehow they managed to have three attorneys on a case with no child custody. Somehow they never talked to each other so everything was repeated over and over which meant more billings. They were thoroughly unethical and I can explain that more offline. But a few examples: they had my earnings in escrow and were denying requests for me to pay my childrens college funds and my property taxes. They forced me to sell a Roth IRA to pay for excessive legal fees because my wife couldn't pay - - mandating that it came from my Roth which is actually the most painful fund to liquidate. It was just stupidity after stupidity. But didn't they help my ex get the maximum? LOL, they were incompetent and had some MASSIVE mis-steps. BUt they racked up an amazing bill. Thats for sure. The perfect combination of expensive and arrogance and incompetence.

I was avoid them at all COSTS, pun intended. It's well known in the industry that they just rack up fees - - and that was my experience.

---

I've heard many similar stories like this involving this firm. Really is just the tip of the iceberg. They give lawyers a bad name.

Thank you all. I don't want any of this. I'm pretty heartbroken. Still hoping and trying to find a way to move towards reconciliation and healing, and if not that, then I'd hope we can find a way to be amicable and kind. However, none of this is in my control right now hence this thread. Thoughts and prayers that God can create a path to healing would be appreciated.

By starting with God and the church, you're on the right track. You could see an amazing transformation and I am hopeful for that for you.

no recommendations for lawyers here.

As a child that endured the Thursday and every other weekend schedule for 12 years with great parents (but bad spouses)...it friggin sucks for the kids. I don't care who the primary parent is - please push hard to get closer to 50/50 schedule that works for both sides.

Sorry that you are going through this. Prayers for a miracle in your situation. I have walked some dark roads and can tell you that reconciliation is extremely difficult, but it takes two very courageous people rowing hard as hell toward a better place. If your partner isn't showing signs of that, they might be gifting you a miracle by being decisive. Hope things turn around for you quickly.

DJV2012 said:

---

Unfortunately looking for highly aggressive divorce attorney who specializes in child custody battles. Hoping this forum would have some recs. Thanks in advance

---

Just saw this post. I'm sorry you're going through this. I'm a family lawyer (that's what divorce lawyers call ourselves) with my office in Flower Mound (Denton County). My law partner is also an Aggie, James Logue. I'm probably a little late to reply to this, but if you'd like to set up a consult we wouldn't charge you for it (Texags discount). We can do it in person, over the phone, or by zoom. Whatever works.

I'll shoot you straight and give you honest answers. Divorce is one of the toughest things you'll ever go through. I tell my clients I won't make it any worse than it has to be.

The vast majority of my cases are in Denton County and Collin County, but I usually have 1 or 2 going in Dallas and Tarrant. James usually handles more than me in Dallas and Tarrant.

Just let me know if you'd like to talk to either of us. You can PM me or call my office and talk with my Legal Assistant, Riley (also a recent Aggie grad).

And yes, I do know Kris Hayes. She's a really good lawyer.

Our website is: www.LLfamilylawyers.com

Thomas Little

A bit late to the party, but I used Goranson Bain as well. Originally had Kyle Basinger (based on a TA recommendation), but he handed me off to a subordinate (Angel), since my case was significantly less complicated than what he usually deals with. Angel is great. I got 50/50. Don't accept standard or expanded standard possession. Stand your ground and do not accept anything less than 50/50. Go in with guns loaded.

You won't go to court unless you've got some extreme circumstances. The court system tries to keep things off their docket, so they try to get everyone to go to mediation. Which is what I did. And Jared Julian was my mediator. He's fair, and definitely lets the other side know when they have no chance, and to take the deal they were given. Plus, he's a gun guy and hunter.

I also had to use JJ again last year when my ex was making a stink about trivial and already clearly defined language in the Final Orders. He acted as mediator on the first part of that, which I got, and then had to step in as arbitrator on another issue, which again went my way. And my ex's most recent attorneys promptly fired her as a client (she used Koons Fuller the first time, and they fired her as well).

Also, don't know how long you were married, but get every single financial record for every account you have from before you were married until current day. If you don't have them, they are attainable. Get them. Then have forensic accounting done on your funds. It cost me $5,000, but it saved me $100,000+ in funds I didn't have to turn over to her.

It's going to be a fight. Don't give an inch. Your ex will try to poison the kids. But they aren't dumb. Mine are 4 & 6, and my 6 yo is already starting to see the crazy.

In case you need a laugh.

Finally a strip mall that can handle your complete descent to rock bottom … pic.twitter.com/J2xCvF9qGV

— Super 70s Sports (@Super70sSports) March 11, 2024

Log said:

---

Don't accept standard or expanded standard possession. Stand your ground and do not accept anything less than 50/50. Go in with guns loaded.

---

How? Even my attorney says that the only way to get 50/50 is if she agrees to it. And she feels she deserves more time "because she is the mother"