PCC AR's don't have a gas tube to lock the barrel nut, so they all need locking tabs, or thread locker on the barrel nut.
As for side charger vs conventional charging, consider advantages (none, makes right handed only, expensive, proprietary parts) of side charger vs traditional (standard parts, familiar operation, ambidextrous...).
Next what caliber? What pattern; Colt or Glock? Most Glock pattern don't have last round bolt hold open, so you don't have to worry about breaking the bolt catch. If you go Colt pattern many lowers come with extended bolt catch, so breakage is also not a concern.
As for the buffer, just start with a carbine buffer and AR15 recoil spring. Going too heavy can lead to many problems, some bothersome, some dangerous: short stroking leading to FTE's and double feeds, short stroking and not engaging the disconnector going full auto, out of battery firing, and breakage of bolt catch.