Ulrich said:
I can't watch the video right now. Was there medical/chemical/surgical intervention? The way I read what is in the thread, the mom is basically trying to stay hands off when it comes to what her daughter is called/identifies. There's a big gap between giving the school the go ahead to refer to Sally as Shawn, and beginning hormone injections without parental consent.
No, it's strictly social at this point, but even that is a big deal. It's basically psychological conditioning. It's the oft repeated, "Say something enough and it becomes true."
It's kind of like how a person can go over a thought enough to burn it into their brain as a false memory. Repeat it enough and it becomes "real" in the sense that you "remember" it and feel it. There are levels of susceptibility because no two brains are alike, but it is certainly possible. Address someone a certain way enough and immerse them in an experience or modified reality and eventually it sticks.
ETA If anything, it may be
more serious than physical intervention because you're essentially trying to rewire someone's brain to lead to those things.