The best letter ever written to a woke school administration

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https://bariweiss.substack.com/p/you-have-to-read-this-letter

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April 13, 2021

Dear Fellow Brearley Parents,

Our family recently made the decision not to reenroll our daughter at Brearley for the 2021-22 school year. She has been at Brearley for seven years, beginning in kindergarten. In short, we no longer believe that Brearley's administration and Board of Trustees have any of our children's best interests at heart. Moreover, we no longer have confidence that our daughter will receive the quality of education necessary to further her development into a critically thinking, responsible, enlightened, and civic minded adult. I write to you, as a fellow parent, to share our reasons for leaving the Brearley community but also to urge you to act before the damage to the school, to its community, and to your own child's education is irreparable.

It cannot be stated strongly enough that Brearley's obsession with race must stop. It should be abundantly clear to any thinking parent that Brearley has completely lost its way. The administration and the Board of Trustees have displayed a cowardly and appalling lack of leadership by appeasing an anti-intellectual, illiberal mob, and then allowing the school to be captured by that same mob. What follows are my own personal views on Brearley's antiracism initiatives, but these are just a handful of the criticisms that I know other parents have expressed.

I object to the view that I should be judged by the color of my skin. I cannot tolerate a school that not only judges my daughter by the color of her skin, but encourages and instructs her to prejudge others by theirs. By viewing every element of education, every aspect of history, and every facet of society through the lens of skin color and race, we are desecrating the legacy of Dr. Martin Luther King Jr., and utterly violating the movement for which such civil rights leaders believed, fought, and died.

I object to the charge of systemic racism in this country, and at our school. Systemic racism, properly understood, is segregated schools and separate lunch counters. It is the interning of Japanese and the exterminating of Jews. Systemic racism is unequivocally not a small number of isolated incidences over a period of decades. Ask any girl, of any race, if they have ever experienced insults from friends, have ever felt slighted by teachers or have ever suffered the occasional injustice from a school at which they have spent up to 13 years of their life, and you are bound to hear grievances, some petty, some not. We have not had systemic racism against Blacks in this country since the civil rights reforms of the 1960s, a period of more than 50 years. To state otherwise is a flat-out misrepresentation of our country's history and adds no understanding to any of today's societal issues. If anything, longstanding and widespread policies such as affirmative action, point in precisely the opposite direction.

I object to a definition of systemic racism, apparently supported by Brearley, that any educational, professional, or societal outcome where Blacks are underrepresented is prima facie evidence of the aforementioned systemic racism, or of white supremacy and oppression. Facile and unsupported beliefs such as these are the polar opposite to the intellectual and scientific truth for which Brearley claims to stand. Furthermore, I call bull**** on Brearley's oft-stated assertion that the school welcomes and encourages the truly difficult and uncomfortable conversations regarding race and the roots of racial discrepancies.

I object to the idea that Blacks are unable to succeed in this country without aid from government or from whites. Brearley, by adopting critical race theory, is advocating the abhorrent viewpoint that Blacks should forever be regarded as helpless victims, and are incapable of success regardless of their skills, talents, or hard work. What Brearley is teaching our children is precisely the true and correct definition of racism.

I object to mandatory anti-racism training for parents, especially when presented by the rent-seeking charlatans of Pollyanna. These sessions, in both their content and delivery, are so sophomoric and simplistic, so unsophisticated and inane, that I would be embarrassed if they were taught to Brearley kindergarteners. They are an insult to parents and unbecoming of any educational institution, let alone one of Brearley's caliber.

I object to Brearley's vacuous, inappropriate, and fanatical use of words such as "equity," "diversity" and "inclusiveness." If Brearley's administration was truly concerned about so-called "equity," it would be discussing the cessation of admissions preferences for legacies, siblings, and those families with especially deep pockets. If the administration was genuinely serious about "diversity," it would not insist on the indoctrination of its students, and their families, to a single mindset, most reminiscent of the Chinese Cultural Revolution. Instead, the school would foster an environment of intellectual openness and freedom of thought. And if Brearley really cared about "inclusiveness," the school would return to the concepts encapsulated in the motto "One Brearley," instead of teaching the extraordinarily divisive idea that there are only, and always, two groups in this country: victims and oppressors.

l object to Brearley's advocacy for groups and movements such as Black Lives Matter, a Marxist, anti family, heterophobic, anti-Asian and anti-Semitic organization that neither speaks for the majority of the Black community in this country, nor in any way, shape or form, represents their best interests.
I object to, as we have been told time and time again over the past year, that the school's first priority is the safety of our children. For goodness sake, Brearley is a school, not a hospital! The number one priority of a school has always been, and always will be, education. Brearley's misguided priorities exemplify both the safety culture and "cover-your-ass" culture that together have proved so toxic to our society and have so damaged the mental health and resiliency of two generations of children, and counting.

I object to the gutting of the history, civics, and classical literature curriculums. I object to the censorship of books that have been taught for generations because they contain dated language potentially offensive to the thin-skinned and hypersensitive (something that has already happened in my daughter's 4th grade class). I object to the lowering of standards for the admission of students and for the hiring of teachers. I object to the erosion of rigor in classwork and the escalation of grade inflation. Any parent with eyes open can foresee these inevitabilities should antiracism initiatives be allowed to persist.

We have today in our country, from both political parties, and at all levels of government, the most unwise and unvirtuous leaders in our nation's history. Schools like Brearley are supposed to be the training grounds for those leaders. Our nation will not survive a generation of leadership even more poorly educated than we have now, nor will we survive a generation of students taught to hate its own country and despise its history.

Lastly, I object, with as strong a sentiment as possible, that Brearley has begun to teach what to think, instead of how to think. I object that the school is now fostering an environment where our daughters, and our daughters' teachers, are afraid to speak their minds in class for fear of "consequences." I object that Brearley is trying to usurp the role of parents in teaching morality, and bullying parents to adopt that false morality at home. I object that Brearley is fostering a divisive community where families of different races, which until recently were part of the same community, are now segregated into two. These are the reasons why we can no longer send our daughter to Brearley.

Over the past several months, I have personally spoken to many Brearley parents as well as parents of children at peer institutions. It is abundantly clear that the majority of parents believe that Brearley's antiracism policies are misguided, divisive, counterproductive and cancerous. Many believe, as I do, that these policies will ultimately destroy what was until recently, a wonderful educational institution. But as I am sure will come as no surprise to you, given the insidious cancel culture that has of late permeated our society, most parents are too fearful to speak up.

But speak up you must. There is strength in numbers and I assure you, the numbers are there. Contact the administration and the Board of Trustees and demand an end to the destructive and anti-intellectual claptrap known as antiracism. And if changes are not forthcoming then demand new leadership.

For the sake of our community, our city, our country and most of all, our children, silence is no longer an option.

Respectfully,
Andrew Gutmann
Fightin TX Aggie
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Andrew Gutmann is a hero. We need thousands more like him.
bmks270
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LOL if you think lefties can actually comprehend a letter like this.
fightingfarmer09
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Fightin TX Aggie said:

Andrew Gutmann is a hero. We need thousands more like him.


This is an important part of the letter.

If you have these beliefs, stop hiding. Sign it, own it, and fight for it.
AgGrad99
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Lastly, I object, with as strong a sentiment as possible, that Brearley has begun to teach what to think, instead of how to think.
cbr
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real question;

what percentage of
1) college educated texans
2) texans
3) americans

actually thinks ANY element of the modern SJW/PC/DNC platform/BLM platform etc., is even remotely sincere or legitimate?

Burdizzo
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fightingfarmer09 said:

Fightin TX Aggie said:

Andrew Gutmann is a hero. We need thousands more like him.


This is an important part of the letter.

If you have these beliefs, stop hiding. Sign it, own it, and fight for it.



He quit the school but wants others to stay and fix it. Some hero....

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I write to you, as a fellow parent, to share our reasons for leaving the Brearley community but also to urge you to act before the damage to the school, to its community, and to your own child's education is irreparable.


I support his belief, but if cared that much he would fight to fix it instead of quitting.
AgGrad99
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He quit the school but wants others to stay and fix it. Some hero....
Writing to those who stayed, about what needs to change, isnt the same thing as encouraging them to stay.

And he can still continue to fight for change, without his kids in the school (by the looks of the letter, he is doing just that). Doesnt mean he should continue to subject his kids to the things he disagrees with.
Fightin TX Aggie
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Burdizzo said:

fightingfarmer09 said:

Fightin TX Aggie said:

Andrew Gutmann is a hero. We need thousands more like him.


This is an important part of the letter.

If you have these beliefs, stop hiding. Sign it, own it, and fight for it.



He quit the school but wants others to stay and fix it. Some hero....

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I write to you, as a fellow parent, to share our reasons for leaving the Brearley community but also to urge you to act before the damage to the school, to its community, and to your own child's education is irreparable.


I support his belief, but if cared that much he would fight to fix it instead of quitting.
I would pull my daughter from there in a heartbeat, and he IS trying to help fix it.
Burdizzo
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AgGrad99 said:


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He quit the school but wants others to stay and fix it. Some hero....
Writing to those who stayed, about what needs to change, isnt the same thing as encouraging them to stay.

And he can still continue to fight for change, without his kids in the school (by the looks of the letter, he is doing just that). Doesnt mean he should continue to subject his kids to the things he disagrees with.



Phatbob
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And this is what the school sees:

"Blah blah blah, racist white privilege"
- Irrelevant White Guy
WestAustinAg
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Burdizzo said:

fightingfarmer09 said:

Fightin TX Aggie said:

Andrew Gutmann is a hero. We need thousands more like him.


This is an important part of the letter.

If you have these beliefs, stop hiding. Sign it, own it, and fight for it.



He quit the school but wants others to stay and fix it. Some hero....

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I write to you, as a fellow parent, to share our reasons for leaving the Brearley community but also to urge you to act before the damage to the school, to its community, and to your own child's education is irreparable.


I support his belief, but if cared that much he would fight to fix it instead of quitting.


I understand what's he's doing. He's saving his daughter while he still has a chance. It's not the time to lose slowly for a few more years when your daughter becomes more indoctrinated every single day.

That school is radical. It's damaging to all children and the parents of the children. We have nearly lost the nation. It's time fir him to save his daughter.
Fightin TX Aggie
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Phatbob said:

And this is what the school sees:

"Blah blah blah, racist white privilege"
- Irrelevant White Guy
That depends on the reactions of the other parents and their $$$$.
FrioAg 00
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1) he put his daughter first, and that means finding a better place for her to learn and develop. You also shield her from the direct fallout of your letter while she's in junior high.

2) he signed it, he put it all out there and didn't suck any reaction from the LibNazi's that will inevitably attack him. They HATE being exposed by the light or truth.

I applaud him and hope others are encouraged as I am
rwtxag83
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Burdizzo said:

fightingfarmer09 said:

Fightin TX Aggie said:

Andrew Gutmann is a hero. We need thousands more like him.


This is an important part of the letter.

If you have these beliefs, stop hiding. Sign it, own it, and fight for it.



He quit the school but wants others to stay and fix it. Some hero....

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I write to you, as a fellow parent, to share our reasons for leaving the Brearley community but also to urge you to act before the damage to the school, to its community, and to your own child's education is irreparable.


I support his belief, but if cared that much he would fight to fix it instead of quitting.


Pulling out your child, and most meaningfully, your money, sends a much stronger message, especially if others join you in any significant numbers at all. It would not take many students leaving to break their backs financially.
Greater love hath no man than this....
akm91
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It would not take many students leaving to break their backs financially.
I bet there's a waiting list to get into that school so not sure it'll really hurt the school that much financially.
"And liberals, being liberals, will double down on failure." - dedgod
YouBet
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Awesome letter
Cromagnum
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bmks270 said:

LOL if you think lefties can actually comprehend a letter like this.


Yep. They will interpret it as a racist letter with a child living in an environment of racism at home.
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I object to the gutting of the history, civics, and classical literature curriculums. I object to the censorship of books that have been taught for generations because they contain dated language potentially offensive to the thin-skinned and hypersensitive (something that has already happened in my daughter's 4th grade class). I object to the lowering of standards for the admission of students and for the hiring of teachers. I object to the erosion of rigor in classwork and the escalation of grade inflation. Any parent with eyes open can foresee these inevitabilities should antiracism initiatives be allowed to persist.
Elections are when people find out what politicians stand for, and politicians find out what people will fall for.
FBG_Ag78
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Very well written and articulated letter
spencerdhg
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Overall good sentiment but still pandered to the same folks he railed against by capitalizing blacks and using lowercase for whites.
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The head of New York City's Brearley School, Jane Fried, called a letter written by the father of a former Brearley student opposing the all-girls prep school's race-based curriculum "deeply offensive and harmful."

In an email sent to the school community, Fried addressed the 1,700-word letter written by Andrew Gutmann, a former investment banker whose 12-year-old daughter attends the Manhattan school, and mailed to 650 families.

"Many have written to say that they found the opinions expressed in the letter to be deeply offensive and harmful, and we agree," Fried wrote. "This afternoon, I and others who work closely with Upper School students met with more than one hundred of them, many of who told us that they felt frightened and intimidated by the letter and the fact that it was sent directly to their homes."
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"The Brearley School condemns racism in the strongest possible terms and is committed to building an antiracist community," the school's website reads. "This work requires active introspection, self-awareness and the determination to make conscious and consistently equitable choices on a daily basis."
Fried said students at the school "noted that as this letter, which denies the presence of systemic racism, crossed their doorways, the evidence of ongoing racismsystemic and otherwiseis daily present in our headlines."

She added, "We are all expected to engage in this work with respect for one another. This letter failed both in content and delivery to meet that expectation. We are better than this and we must do better for our students. They are counting on us."

The school is attended by daughters of Chelsea Clinton, Tina Fey, Drew Barrymore and Steve Martin. Famous alumnae include Caroline Kennedy, Elisabeth Murdoch, Jill Clayburgh, Gertrude Vanderbilt Whitney and Mary Catherine Bateson.
Newsweek article
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Burdizzo said:

fightingfarmer09 said:

Fightin TX Aggie said:

Andrew Gutmann is a hero. We need thousands more like him.


This is an important part of the letter.

If you have these beliefs, stop hiding. Sign it, own it, and fight for it.



He quit the school but wants others to stay and fix it. Some hero....

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I write to you, as a fellow parent, to share our reasons for leaving the Brearley community but also to urge you to act before the damage to the school, to its community, and to your own child's education is irreparable.


I support his belief, but if cared that much he would fight to fix it instead of quitting.
So you're faulting the guy for not wanting to take a long shot/low odds gamble with the educational development of his own kids?
YouBet
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EllisCoAg said:

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The head of New York City's Brearley School, Jane Fried, called a letter written by the father of a former Brearley student opposing the all-girls prep school's race-based curriculum "deeply offensive and harmful."

In an email sent to the school community, Fried addressed the 1,700-word letter written by Andrew Gutmann, a former investment banker whose 12-year-old daughter attends the Manhattan school, and mailed to 650 families.

"Many have written to say that they found the opinions expressed in the letter to be deeply offensive and harmful, and we agree," Fried wrote. "This afternoon, I and others who work closely with Upper School students met with more than one hundred of them, many of who told us that they felt frightened and intimidated by the letter and the fact that it was sent directly to their homes."
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"The Brearley School condemns racism in the strongest possible terms and is committed to building an antiracist community," the school's website reads. "This work requires active introspection, self-awareness and the determination to make conscious and consistently equitable choices on a daily basis."
Fried said students at the school "noted that as this letter, which denies the presence of systemic racism, crossed their doorways, the evidence of ongoing racismsystemic and otherwiseis daily present in our headlines."

She added, "We are all expected to engage in this work with respect for one another. This letter failed both in content and delivery to meet that expectation. We are better than this and we must do better for our students. They are counting on us."

The school is attended by daughters of Chelsea Clinton, Tina Fey, Drew Barrymore and Steve Martin. Famous alumnae include Caroline Kennedy, Elisabeth Murdoch, Jill Clayburgh, Gertrude Vanderbilt Whitney and Mary Catherine Bateson.
Newsweek article
They condemn racism but are committed to building an anti-white, anti-western community.

And they are frightened and intimidated by a differing opinion thereby completely proving Andrews points in his letter.

He was smart to remove his daughter from this Nazi youth camp.
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EllisCoAg said:

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The head of New York City's Brearley School, Jane Fried, called a letter written by the father of a former Brearley student opposing the all-girls prep school's race-based curriculum "deeply offensive and harmful."

Notice the glaring absence from the school's head? That's right, any comprehensive response whatsoever to the contents of the letter. This antiracism stuff is a religion. The reactions you get for dissent are accusations of heresy, not thoughtful responses about why they are right.
Burdizzo
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ThunderCougarFalconBird said:

Burdizzo said:

fightingfarmer09 said:

Fightin TX Aggie said:

Andrew Gutmann is a hero. We need thousands more like him.


This is an important part of the letter.

If you have these beliefs, stop hiding. Sign it, own it, and fight for it.



He quit the school but wants others to stay and fix it. Some hero....

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I write to you, as a fellow parent, to share our reasons for leaving the Brearley community but also to urge you to act before the damage to the school, to its community, and to your own child's education is irreparable.


I support his belief, but if cared that much he would fight to fix it instead of quitting.
So you're faulting the guy for not wanting to take a long shot/low odds gamble with the educational development of his own kids?


I don't fault the guy for leaving. In fact, I would question his enrollment to begin with.

What I have issue with is him telling everyone else that he's leaving but encouraging everyone else he hopes they can fix it before it's too late.. So long suckers.

Imagine if you got suckered into Scientology and figured out you needed to escape. Would you tell others to stay and fix it? Carefully read what I highlighted.
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This antiracism stuff is a religion.
It is a cult.

There is no reasoning with cult members once they've joined. They just cannot be allowed to force the cult onto others.

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Interesting. It seems like change in the minds of this particular ideology always requires requires active introspection and self-awareness.....from others.
akm91
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I think he's telling the parents to do what they must to protect their own kids including speaking up and advocating for change or leave the school. I don't see it as so long suckers, see you later.
"And liberals, being liberals, will double down on failure." - dedgod
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...silence is no longer an option.
This
Burdizzo
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akm91 said:

I think he's telling the parents to do what they must to protect their own kids including speaking up and advocating for change or leave the school. I don't see it as so long suckers, see you later.



...urge you to act before the damage ... to the school is irreparable.

He quit the school. Why does he care about the school?
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Sims said:

Interesting. It seems like change in the minds of this particular ideology always requires active introspection and self-awareness.....from others.
exactly
#CertifiedSIP
MW03
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Here is the school's response:



Whether you agree with Andrew Gutman or not, the response to his letter underscores his larger point. Rather than engage in a difficult conversation about the objections he raised, their response was to highlight the emotional response it may have generated, and in doing so, refuse to engage in a discussion about the merits of his points. In the same paragraph, they pledge to "continue to listen, solicit feedback, and welcome constructive criticism" on the subject matter, but then decry the letter as "failed both in content and delivery" with respect to generating the conversation.

They have an obligation to respond to the letter meaningfully if they are to be taken seriously with respect to their mission statement.
Burdizzo
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The truth is hard for some people. The school admin is in denial.
YouBet
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There is absolutely nothing he said that promotes non-support for non-whites. And their cultish, knee jerk response is to reiterate their support for all non-whites.

Her entire response is a straw man using diversity as her shield. It's about the only counterpoint the left has these days and they use it with impunity in every argument regardless of the issue at hand.
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