I look at this issue somewhat like a symbol and it's referent. Take a peace symbol. To some it stands for peace, to others it's a symbol of the whole 60's revolution, to others its a communist/satanic symbol.
My point is that it's all of those; each one is a different referent for the symbol. The holidays are like that to me. I am aware that most "Christian" holidays are "baptized" pagan holidays, but I don't celebrate the pagan aspects, just the Christian ones.
Christmas is a time of giftgiving, when we remember and celebrate the fact that at some point in space and time Jesus, one of the persons of the holy trinity, was incarnated as a man, for my/our salvation. That's what it important to me.
The only aspect of holidays that I stay away from is the Santa Claus aspect of Christman. We pretended in Santa when the kids were young. I say pretend because they always knew that we were the source of the gifts not some quasi-god. And they had the fun of the fantasy, but did not confuse the reality with Santa with the reality of Jesus.
I saw something one Christman that completely freaked me out. I saw a manger scene with Santa bowing down before Jesus. I thought...interesting, mixture of myths, at least that what it looks like.
Many kids, when they find out Santa is mom and dad oftentimes follow up with the question, "Is Jesus real?" because they are similar in a kid's mind.
[This message has been edited by The Lone Stranger (edited 7/25/2005 8:08p).]