PabloSerna said:
You presume too much. You really do not know me.
From what you've shared on this forum, you're an architect, you have between 7-9 kids, your first kid was an oops baby that y'all (thankfully) overcame the thought of abortion, you've posted about a child (or two?) of yours that is struggling with either gay and/or trans thoughts, and you post a lot about this upcoming Synod where the LGBT+ groups are given a more formal voice. Your threads tend to jump from one interpretation of scripture I've never heard of to the next.
Do I actually know you? No. Do I know what you're trying to get at every time you post on this topic? Yes.
You are a man who loves his family deeply and is struggling to come to grips with what Christianity plainly states about marriage and sex and how that flies in the face of the LGBT+ communities agenda about what they demand of God.
You're familiar with the statistic that the number one reason people leave church (and God) is disagreements with God about sex. And this shakes you to your core to the point you'll find anything to allows a Godly slant on gay or trans relationships. Because you love your kid. ('
what if they just commit to being monogamous?','What if God made them this way?','What even is marriage?') When I read you threads, I get constantly reminded of the Upton Sinclair quote:
"It is difficult to get a man to understand something when his salary depends upon his not understanding of it." I will earnestly pray for you and your family, because that is what Christians do. And honestly, having a child come out as struggling with the lies of the LGBT community would shake me to my core as well. I've seen every single friend that has come out as gay nearly simultaneously come out as atheist.
The orthodox church has a very simple approach to the LGB side of things, but its not easy, and its celibacy. There will be no orthodox synod about it.