I recently attended an event with extended family, and I come from a family with strong believers (of the literalist Protestant variety). Several uncles and a few cousins in the course of conversation asked me how I was doing spiritually.
I always assume that Christians want to hear "great, I'm on fire for Jesus" or something like that rather than the honest truth. I don't say that because I don't want to lie. However, surely my extended family members didn't ask me that question looking for a debate on the reality of God or whether Jesus was his earthly manifestation, right?
If I say anything other than "great, I'm on fire for Jesus" people will assume I'm somehow struggling with my faith, which is not the case. There is no struggle because I have no faith.
Other than starting an uncomfortable religious debate at an inopportune situation, how do I deal with that question without lying to people?
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I always assume that Christians want to hear "great, I'm on fire for Jesus" or something like that rather than the honest truth. I don't say that because I don't want to lie. However, surely my extended family members didn't ask me that question looking for a debate on the reality of God or whether Jesus was his earthly manifestation, right?
If I say anything other than "great, I'm on fire for Jesus" people will assume I'm somehow struggling with my faith, which is not the case. There is no struggle because I have no faith.
Other than starting an uncomfortable religious debate at an inopportune situation, how do I deal with that question without lying to people?
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